Amber
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No, I mean, I think it's a really valid point.
It's exactly what I'm struggling with now.
I mean, I think what's so difficult too is I tried for so long silently, like with myself and with my husband sort of behind closed doors in the sense of like, we have two very different versions of history.
Like his version is never, didn't take me seriously, right?
When I would bring these things up and I think it's part of being like dismissive of sort of what I'm saying and how serious I am.
And I think he, maybe at the end of the day, this is just a wake up call.
And he does, I mean, he is going to therapy.
I'm therapied like out.
I go to therapy.
We're in couples therapy currently.
Mainly like to help co-parent, but yeah, we're in therapy.
We've talked about all of it.
I mean, maybe a little in the sense that he won't take accountability for why we got where we got.
And that's my biggest frustration is like, yes, I made the mistake.