Amir Levine
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1,160 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard Mar 2026
last heard 15 Jun
Amir Levine’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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You actually, you achieve the opposite of what you wanted.
In order to really right-size the relationship, that's why the world tennis with love is so important for people with anxious attachment because you don't like fool your brain.
The relationship is still there and it's manageable and you're continuing the back and forth.
But secretly,
You've shifted your priorities and now you're really giving a lot more time and a lot more effort into those secure relationships.
So you haven't left them.
You haven't cut anyone out.
You just really reshuffled your priorities.
It actually makes a lot of sense if you think about it.
Like with my friend, when I used to go to him with all some issues and some problems, like if something happened and I needed advice.
And for whatever reason, he wasn't able to give it to me.
And then usually what happens from an attachment perspective, it's important to understand how powerful secure bonds are.
Because...
And I'm sure you also have that in your head.
Like if something bad happens to you, I'm sure there's this, you know exactly who's person number one that you'll go to, who's person number two or number three.
And then if we're securely attached to those people, sometimes all it takes is a hug or a word or a sentence to make us feel better.
It's such a powerful thing because we're social species.
There's no Klonopin or Xanax that even comes close to the powerful effect of a secure bond.
But the opposite is also true, like insecure attachments can be one of the most powerful instigators of emotional turmoil.
And so I always say that attachment really is at the basis of both suffering and healing from suffering.
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