Amir Levine
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1,160 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard Mar 2026
last heard 15 Jun
Amir Levine’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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It's just like we don't feel that it's very stable.
We feel that it's very fragile.
So that's the anxious attachment style.
And people who are secure love closeness and intimacy, but they don't have that sensitive radar for potential danger.
So a lot of stuff go over their head and they're just really warm and loving and easy to get along with.
And then on the other side, you have the
the avoidance.
And when you're avoidant, you also want to be in a relationship and you want the connection.
But something funny happens when you get close to someone, you start to feel uncomfortable with too much closeness and you use what we call in attachment lingo, deactivating strategies, little ways to some distance between you and the other person.
And the script that goes on in your head is that you have to be self-sufficient, self-reliant.
And really, like you think about your independence is the most important thing, more so than the connection itself.
And then there's
A fearful avoidant is the combination of the two, anxious and avoidant.
So really, on the one hand, you really want closeness and you crave closeness.
But also when people get too close, you start to sort of like, no, no, no, like stay away.
So it's like with one hand, you're motioning, come closer.
And with the other hand, you say you're motioning, stay away, stay away.
So it creates a lot of instability in the relationship.
So it's you take a quiz and then you find out.
And the truth is.
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