Amir Levine
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1,160 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard Mar 2026
last heard 15 Jun
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And I couldn't really figure out why.
And then when I came across this concept, it's like a light bulb, a relationship light bulb went up, like went on in my head.
And I all of a sudden understood what was going on in the different dynamics of
For example, when I get close to someone, I feel like, oh, I really like this person.
And I start thinking about building a future together.
But the other person I was with at the time, like he told me, oh, when I get close to someone, I want to move to San Francisco.
I was living in New York and was like, no, but that doesn't make any sense to me.
And so at the time, all I had to go by was
knowledge, sort of pre-attachment knowledge, that this idea that love conquers all.
Like what it meant for me is like, if he says that, that means that he just doesn't love me enough because if he loved someone more, he would want to be with them.
But then when you understand attachment logic, you know that that's actually not true, that people can love you, but still like get scared from the closeness and feel uncomfortable and want to create more distance.
And if you understand that logic, you can work with it better.
So the whole idea behind secure priming therapy is to understand that there's an attachment logic that runs through all of our relationships.
And if we learn that logic and if you can use it in our lives and there are specific tools that I really am looking forward to talking about with you, then we can really find a better path to make relationships work better for us.
really become more secure.
Exactly.
Yes.
It sort of really harnesses this idea about what our social brain needs.
and how to really give our social brain what it needs to feel that level of connectedness that make us secure.
There's one thing we need to understand before we even jump into the tools.
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