Anders Ronnau

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One would be when your child has some kind of behavior.

Realize that that behavior is being driven by some thoughts or feelings from the inside.

And then really talk to the child about those thoughts and feelings after you've all cooled off.

That's the most important part.

And then realize that if, for example, if a child doesn't want to go to school,

There's typically or almost always a part of the child obviously that doesn't want to go to school, but the opposite part is also always present.

So there's a part of the kids that wants to go to school and there's a part of the kid that doesn't want to go to school.

And you can talk to either one.

If you talk to the behaviour.

You're talking to the one that doesn't want to go to school.

But if you have that conversation about what's going on, so is there also a part of you that wants to go to school?

Yeah, sure.

There's a a part of me that really wants to learn or whatnot, or hang out with my best friend or what?

Then you can start talking to that part of the kid from early morning until you're out the door.

That will change the conversation and that'll change how

your own emotional state is and how the child's emotional state is.

So that's one thing.

The other thing is look at that positive intention.

Always go for the positive intention.

Let me give an anecdote here.

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