Andrew Huberman

Some people would disclose a lot on planes.

Yeah.

and then you never hear or talk to them again.

Nowadays, there's almost always an opportunity for people to follow up and connect with people.

That's what James Sexton is referring to when he talks about social media being a, barring other person's language here, an attack vector on a relationship.

And maybe that is a good reason for people who are in committed relationships to just get off of social media, period.

But it's also a context where people

spend, quote unquote, spend time with people for other reasons.

What about in the reverse?

Or the reverse.

Yeah, sure.

Some of the what appear to be the strongest and happiest couples that I know, I know very little about their dynamics, period.

Yeah.

Which is kind of an interesting thing in its own right.

But some of the people that are in that set seem to have a pretty relaxed

rapport around, oh yeah, so-and-so, referring to their spouse, really likes that actor or actress.

It's just kind of a thing that they understand, but it's over there, right?

It's at a distance.

It feels safe, yeah.

Yeah, it's not like a looming threat.