Andy Stumpf

Why do I keep thinking about that?

Is it healthy?

Is it rational or irrational?

Can I use that to do something positive in my life?

Most of the time you can.

If it gets to be the point of being unhealthy, I would reach to a higher level of care and talk to somebody about that.

And I say that as somebody who's had my insecurities get to a point where they needed a higher level of care in their life.

But I also now use them like, huh, why do I keep thinking about that?

Let's have a healthy relationship and healthy boundary with this thought, but I think it might be the roadmap.

So I felt the same feelings, exactly the same pressure, building my confidence.

How did I do this?

By controlling what I could.

And what I will say is this.

Take this thought out of your mind.

Let me see if I can find it first.

Here it is.

I struggle with the idea of me being the one to make it out of all people.

How is that helping you?

How is that thought serving you?

That one I would put into a category of an insecurity that is not beneficial in any way unless it drives you to do more.