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So it's a little bit of that, but it's also like when we bring it into our house, it's just so much stuff.

Like there's stuff that she got them last year that I don't think was ever played with.

Like I probably took it down to our storage in a tote months later without it being played with very much.

I don't feel like, I mean, at the beginning of our marriage, my husband had to set up like a lot of guardrails and he's had a lot of like hard conversations, but I don't feel like they really do anymore.

We have a really good relationship with them.

Then that leads me to the third thing, which is if, if I guess he definitely tries to sometimes, but my husband is willing to put her back in her place.

Somewhat.

I mean, I think my husband, I didn't grow up with anywhere near this.

Christmas is like, I think the first year I was in this family, she spent more money on me than my parents usually do at Christmas.

So that was shocking.

But yeah,

I think he kind of wanted to be able to give our kids like the shell shock that he normally got walking down on Christmas.

And now like they get more shocked from his parents.

So that bothers him.

Yeah.

I hear it now.

I think a little bit of it is also like, I don't know what our six year old is going to say this year, but like last year we, he started opening stuff and was kind of like, that's it.

Like at our house.

And I was like, I mean, I spent a hundred dollars on a Lego set.

I can't buy.