Anna Kai
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Because I think especially for women in their 20s in a major city, dating is just such a slog. Because it just takes such a toll on your self-confidence and just kind of your emotions. And I don't think it's quite the same for straight men anymore.
Because I think especially for women in their 20s in a major city, dating is just such a slog. Because it just takes such a toll on your self-confidence and just kind of your emotions. And I don't think it's quite the same for straight men anymore.
And I think that's just social conditioning and what women are taught, that our value lies, and especially us as millennials, our value lies in who wants us, right? And my husband was single for four and a half years before we met. He was dating, but he didn't get into any serious relationships. And I was like... did you go to therapy because you were single for four and a half years?
And I think that's just social conditioning and what women are taught, that our value lies, and especially us as millennials, our value lies in who wants us, right? And my husband was single for four and a half years before we met. He was dating, but he didn't get into any serious relationships. And I was like... did you go to therapy because you were single for four and a half years?
And I think that's just social conditioning and what women are taught, that our value lies, and especially us as millennials, our value lies in who wants us, right? And my husband was single for four and a half years before we met. He was dating, but he didn't get into any serious relationships. And I was like... did you go to therapy because you were single for four and a half years?
No, men don't think that way. They don't think that way. He's like, my mom started to get a little antsy, you know, but he was like, I just figured when I met the right person, I would settle down. And so I just thought there was something to say there. And I really try to approach my content from an empowerment perspective for women. And look, my my advice is for men, too.
No, men don't think that way. They don't think that way. He's like, my mom started to get a little antsy, you know, but he was like, I just figured when I met the right person, I would settle down. And so I just thought there was something to say there. And I really try to approach my content from an empowerment perspective for women. And look, my my advice is for men, too.
No, men don't think that way. They don't think that way. He's like, my mom started to get a little antsy, you know, but he was like, I just figured when I met the right person, I would settle down. And so I just thought there was something to say there. And I really try to approach my content from an empowerment perspective for women. And look, my my advice is for men, too.
I have a small percentage of male followers who at the end of the day,
I have a small percentage of male followers who at the end of the day,
I have a small percentage of male followers who at the end of the day,
How did you meet your husband? I met my husband on Bumble. So there's no story there. It wasn't a meet cute. It wasn't anything. It was very simple. We were a dating app match. And to your question, how you asked about, do you think we're kind of spoiled for choice? I think there's two things to my opinion is why millennials are getting married later and later.
How did you meet your husband? I met my husband on Bumble. So there's no story there. It wasn't a meet cute. It wasn't anything. It was very simple. We were a dating app match. And to your question, how you asked about, do you think we're kind of spoiled for choice? I think there's two things to my opinion is why millennials are getting married later and later.
How did you meet your husband? I met my husband on Bumble. So there's no story there. It wasn't a meet cute. It wasn't anything. It was very simple. We were a dating app match. And to your question, how you asked about, do you think we're kind of spoiled for choice? I think there's two things to my opinion is why millennials are getting married later and later.
First of all, it's just expensive to start your life, honestly. And so I feel like a lot of millennials... are delaying marriage and kids and a family because they're really trying to get their careers in line first, especially men. I do sympathize with men, despite the fact that I trash a lot of douchey men on my content.
First of all, it's just expensive to start your life, honestly. And so I feel like a lot of millennials... are delaying marriage and kids and a family because they're really trying to get their careers in line first, especially men. I do sympathize with men, despite the fact that I trash a lot of douchey men on my content.
First of all, it's just expensive to start your life, honestly. And so I feel like a lot of millennials... are delaying marriage and kids and a family because they're really trying to get their careers in line first, especially men. I do sympathize with men, despite the fact that I trash a lot of douchey men on my content.
I sympathize with men in the sense that I feel like a lot of men feel the need to be in a financially stable provider.
I sympathize with men in the sense that I feel like a lot of men feel the need to be in a financially stable provider.
I sympathize with men in the sense that I feel like a lot of men feel the need to be in a financially stable provider.