Anna Kai

Right. So a lot of them don't want to settle down until they feel like they can provide. And so I understand that. So I think that's part of the issue. But I do think the other part of it is we're really afraid of commitment as a generation in so much to the point. I talk about this a lot is that I don't believe in dating exclusively without labels.

Right. So a lot of them don't want to settle down until they feel like they can provide. And so I understand that. So I think that's part of the issue. But I do think the other part of it is we're really afraid of commitment as a generation in so much to the point. I talk about this a lot is that I don't believe in dating exclusively without labels.

Right. So a lot of them don't want to settle down until they feel like they can provide. And so I understand that. So I think that's part of the issue. But I do think the other part of it is we're really afraid of commitment as a generation in so much to the point. I talk about this a lot is that I don't believe in dating exclusively without labels.

I think that's such BS because it's something that we made up like millennials did, because dating is the trial phase for marriage. If monogamy and a traditional relationship is what you want, dating is a trial phase. You can always break up. But now we've invented this whole other phase prior to dating.

I think that's such BS because it's something that we made up like millennials did, because dating is the trial phase for marriage. If monogamy and a traditional relationship is what you want, dating is a trial phase. You can always break up. But now we've invented this whole other phase prior to dating.

I think that's such BS because it's something that we made up like millennials did, because dating is the trial phase for marriage. If monogamy and a traditional relationship is what you want, dating is a trial phase. You can always break up. But now we've invented this whole other phase prior to dating.

Yeah, and it's like you just don't... You can't be one foot in, one foot out. And I think if one person or both people are, that's just not the right person. It just has to be easy.

Yeah, and it's like you just don't... You can't be one foot in, one foot out. And I think if one person or both people are, that's just not the right person. It just has to be easy.

Yeah, and it's like you just don't... You can't be one foot in, one foot out. And I think if one person or both people are, that's just not the right person. It just has to be easy.

I really believe that at the end of the day, like if you're coming to me, which I love my community, but if you're coming to me, a random ass person on the Internet who's unqualified, who's never gone to school to be a therapist or anything for advice. on what to do with a man, it's most likely because you already know that relationship is somewhat over.

I really believe that at the end of the day, like if you're coming to me, which I love my community, but if you're coming to me, a random ass person on the Internet who's unqualified, who's never gone to school to be a therapist or anything for advice. on what to do with a man, it's most likely because you already know that relationship is somewhat over.

I really believe that at the end of the day, like if you're coming to me, which I love my community, but if you're coming to me, a random ass person on the Internet who's unqualified, who's never gone to school to be a therapist or anything for advice. on what to do with a man, it's most likely because you already know that relationship is somewhat over.

And you're just trying to figure out if there's any way to save it. Right.

And you're just trying to figure out if there's any way to save it. Right.

And you're just trying to figure out if there's any way to save it. Right.

yeah and i think that was with my husband how long did you go out before we were only together for a few months before we made it official okay and it wasn't even like men are just so dense sometimes like i had a rule for myself that i would not get physically intimate with a guy until he was my boyfriend i was his girlfriend you were going to introduce me to people and that's kind of old school i know but i just knew that is not something i am interested i'm not interested

yeah and i think that was with my husband how long did you go out before we were only together for a few months before we made it official okay and it wasn't even like men are just so dense sometimes like i had a rule for myself that i would not get physically intimate with a guy until he was my boyfriend i was his girlfriend you were going to introduce me to people and that's kind of old school i know but i just knew that is not something i am interested i'm not interested

yeah and i think that was with my husband how long did you go out before we were only together for a few months before we made it official okay and it wasn't even like men are just so dense sometimes like i had a rule for myself that i would not get physically intimate with a guy until he was my boyfriend i was his girlfriend you were going to introduce me to people and that's kind of old school i know but i just knew that is not something i am interested i'm not interested

in casual sex right and you know a lot of women can have casual sex and not get emotionally attached that was never me again always looking for my husband trying to make every wrong man my husband and so I think it just wasn't a conversation at first and he was always just like and then it got to a point where we'd been dating for three or four months and he was like I what's going on with you?

in casual sex right and you know a lot of women can have casual sex and not get emotionally attached that was never me again always looking for my husband trying to make every wrong man my husband and so I think it just wasn't a conversation at first and he was always just like and then it got to a point where we'd been dating for three or four months and he was like I what's going on with you?