Annie Duke
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227 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Oct 2024
last heard Oct 2024
Annie Duke’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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by actually walking away when it's uh appropriate.
Now
I think one thing that that I don't know, you can tell me, it might be going through your mind is
Well wouldn't people do that automatically for you?
But the fact is that they're not going to because they're going to be afraid of like hurting your feelings.
I mean, I don't know, are you really eager to tell someone who's in a bad relationship that they should break up with the person they're with?
None none of your business.
And also, ooh, if they stay with them, that's gonna be really bad for you.
Right.
Or if someone's pursuing a project that's failing, telling them to walk away is telling them that they're failing.
You know, and we think that as friends we ought to be cheerleading people.
Like I know you can turn it around, Mike.
Like I know you can do it.
Like when you come to me and you say, like things aren't going well, but I know I can turn it around, it's gonna be my instinct to say, Well, I wanna you know, Mike is my friend, so I wanna be nice to him.
So
I'm going to tell him like, yes, I know you can turn it around.
Like I'm going to cheerlead you.
So it it's actually a little bit on us as people who are seeking somebody to help coach us to let them know, like, I'm giving you permission to tell me the truth.
Because I don't want you to tell me what you think I want to hear right now.
I want you to tell me what you think is best for me in the long run.
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