Anthony O'Neal
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You have some parents saying, hey, I want you to go to this school and become this when you get older. And then they grow up growing envy of their parents because their parents didn't give them an opportunity to say, you know what? Hey, let's work hand in hand. Or resentful or whatever it is. Exactly. So it's like, how do we do that together? So that's number two.
You have some parents saying, hey, I want you to go to this school and become this when you get older. And then they grow up growing envy of their parents because their parents didn't give them an opportunity to say, you know what? Hey, let's work hand in hand. Or resentful or whatever it is. Exactly. So it's like, how do we do that together? So that's number two.
And then number three, this is going to be an unpopular one, but we've got to stop teaching our kids that the only way to be successful financially is to have a high credit score.
And then number three, this is going to be an unpopular one, but we've got to stop teaching our kids that the only way to be successful financially is to have a high credit score.
You gotta stop saying that.
You gotta stop saying that.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah. But that came from the teaching of your father, though. Yeah. Because he didn't have a flashy car. Exactly. And nowadays, and then too, growing up, because we're right around the same age... Social media wasn't big back then. So we didn't see all the flashy stuff. You just saw your neighbor maybe had a nice car and that was it. Or your friend or whatever.
Yeah. But that came from the teaching of your father, though. Yeah. Because he didn't have a flashy car. Exactly. And nowadays, and then too, growing up, because we're right around the same age... Social media wasn't big back then. So we didn't see all the flashy stuff. You just saw your neighbor maybe had a nice car and that was it. Or your friend or whatever.
Or whenever you go to church or something like that. So like now this generation of kids are seeing the flashy stuff. Oh, you got to have the nice car to be perceived as successful.
Or whenever you go to church or something like that. So like now this generation of kids are seeing the flashy stuff. Oh, you got to have the nice car to be perceived as successful.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And it goes back to the core. When you really know who you are, you operate and you walk differently. And that is something that over the last few years I've really mastered and really keep drilling into myself. This is who you are. This is where you're going. I like cars. I am a car guy. So it's your thing. That is my thing. But you know what?
And it goes back to the core. When you really know who you are, you operate and you walk differently. And that is something that over the last few years I've really mastered and really keep drilling into myself. This is who you are. This is where you're going. I like cars. I am a car guy. So it's your thing. That is my thing. But you know what?
I'm really coming to value a whole lot more than cars is I want a wife. Right. You know, I want kids, you know, and it's like I value that more. Yeah. And when I when I say I value that, I mean, I didn't go to Disney World. You know, I haven't been to Disney World yet because, you know, growing up, my family couldn't afford it.
I'm really coming to value a whole lot more than cars is I want a wife. Right. You know, I want kids, you know, and it's like I value that more. Yeah. And when I when I say I value that, I mean, I didn't go to Disney World. You know, I haven't been to Disney World yet because, you know, growing up, my family couldn't afford it.
I haven't been to Disneyland. And I've been to Six Flags. Yeah. You know, but we couldn't afford... The stepchild of Disneyland. Exactly. You know, we couldn't afford the family trips, the spring breaks. And it's like, man, when I think about it now, I'm trying to steward and maximize my single season so that way when I do have a wife, I do have kids,
I haven't been to Disneyland. And I've been to Six Flags. Yeah. You know, but we couldn't afford... The stepchild of Disneyland. Exactly. You know, we couldn't afford the family trips, the spring breaks. And it's like, man, when I think about it now, I'm trying to steward and maximize my single season so that way when I do have a wife, I do have kids,