Ashani Dante
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1,921 appearances
12 recordings
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first heard May 2026
last heard 17 Jul
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I feel like there's a lot of gaps for me when I think about the different kinds of rest.
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So I feel like I've got some homework to do after this episode.
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I know we started to, you kind of unpacked it a little bit around rest and how people really struggle with it.
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But how do we even know if we're truly resting or just doing a poor job of it because our minds won't switch off?
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I think the clearest signal is how you feel when you come back into your daily life.
So if you are re-engaging with the people around you, the things in your life with a greater sense of tolerance, you're thinking clearer, or it feels like the frustrations that you had weren't spiking you as much as they used to, then we can say, yeah, I think you did get some solid rest.
But if you feel like you need another weekend to recover from the weekend that was just gone, that's when we know that something's likely gone wrong.
And there's also a useful question that I like to ask of the clients that I work with.
And it's this.
During that time off, were you actually physically in one place and mentally somewhere else?
Because your nervous system doesn't get a holiday from where your mind is.
So if your body is at the beach, but your head's in the inbox, sorry to say it, but you spent the day at the inbox.
Yeah, that is so, oh my goodness.
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Yeah, this is really good.
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And it can be really hard to switch off the mind because we are like constantly hustling and moving at such a fast pace.
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And it's interesting too, because you were kind of speaking to around, you know, even after having
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a lazy weekend or you know resting by the beach we can still feel exhausted so you know my question is why do so many people even after a full night's rest or you know they've had a lazy weekend
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they're still feeling like they are exhausted than even before.
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Yeah, I think that a few things can actually be going on here.
The first and probably most obvious one would be sleep quality.
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