Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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Yes. So actually, let's go into myths versus reality just a little bit before we get into the details of the trial. Is it true or not that people who enjoy orgies are traumatized?
Does group sex mean your excitement about group sex or participation in it mean that you lack morals?
Is kink a result, kink or fetish, a result of sexual damage or psychological damage as well?
And is having... different things we're about to discuss, non-traditional sex, is it emotionally harmful?
Okay, so let's actually just dive right into the trial now that we've established some myths versus realities. A lot of people don't necessarily understand the layout of a lot of the freak-offs that have been discussed in trials. So what I want you to first kind of explain to people is the difference of voyeurism or even just, I think it could be under the guise of voyeurism, cuckolding.
Can you explain to the audience what cuckolding is?
And two of those things that you just named actually were what was happening in Diddy's case in regards to being in the room, masturbating during the scenes that he was in.
dictating then there also was when he was put on facetime it was discussed in trial to watch or observe something now because you've discussed cuck holding in a sex positive way i'd like to address it in a coercive abusive way when does cuck holding become something that is criminal
And all of those things that you have established as part of coercive abuse have been established in this trial through testimony of various people that had sexual experiences with Diddy. You know, they've alleged that those things have all occurred. Another term that we've heard discussed and it's kind of a hot topic one is I first learned it is golden showers. We're hearing it as urinating.
You know, the escorts were told to urinate in Cassie's mouth and at times even for her to choke on it. I do want to kind of point out for people that had such outrage or visceral reactions or even humor, humorous reactions to that. This is not the first time we have been introduced to this idea. It was talked about during the Tiger Woods cheating scandal.
It was talked about during President Trump's alleged encounters in Russia and. It has been talked about on Sex and the City, I think, in like 2000 when the guy from Mad Men came on and wanted to do it with Carrie, the politician. And she loved him and she thought this could be everything she wanted. But he just had that one little fetish or kink of wanting to... Have a golden shower.
I think it was on that episode in the shower. As a sex positive person myself, I will I can actually discuss with my inside information from being a bad boy that this was a conversation that was had amongst many of the key players at Bad Boy. Many people that were involved. in positions of authority over me with a lot of the artists. It was discussed in a sexy way.
It was discussed as like after I, you know, potentially get fellatio, I like to men like to then urinate. And if I can do all of the above on the girl, it's like so hot because I feel It's the dynamic that sometimes is very necessary in sexual relationships, the power dynamics, right? Like, you know, I know women that like soft, gentle love. I'm hard and aggressive in work every day.
When I get into bed, I like to be a little dominated and I like to be handled in a sensual, non-coercive way. But I like to be spanked, and I like a little choking sometimes. I have dabbled in the golden shower area just simply because of hearing all the men at Bad Boy discussing it being something that was so hot. And some did it with their wives.
Some did it with the women they cheated on their wives with, whatever. everybody kind of got into this discussion. It was the first time I remember really actually hearing the male perspective that it was kind of exciting and interesting and something that's like personal, that's like this secret that seems like not normal that you share with somebody that only you two have together.
And I'd like you to kind of get into when it's a sexually positive thing potentially and when it's a criminal thing.
I have a friend that does it, so I got to learn all about that world. That one's a little much for me, but again, I'm sex positive, so no judgment.
Yeah. Or in like Cassie's case, she's young. She is groomed. And there's a part of the dialogue that I think a lot of people miss that I noticed in the testimony where she said in the beginning days when she would entertain this, that when he when he shared with her that he was into this behavior that is, you know, is maybe abnormal to most people.
She said when she was first entertaining it, you know, that she wasn't enjoying it. It doesn't seem like much or ever. I think she learned to express enjoyment for it in order to get attention and reaction from the person that she loved. But there was an exchange where she said, I didn't want to push back and tell him I didn't like something personally.
Because I didn't want him to think he was like weird or I was judging something that he like shared with me that he likes doing that's very personal.
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