Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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It's like people see these isolated stories as, oh, this is they see it as also dark. But imagine being in your bed with somebody that you're falling in love with. And they tell you something potentially happened in childhood. It could have been triggered from many things. It could just be something fully positive, not rooted in anything traumatic.
But either way, the sharing of something so personal from somebody that is so powerful and nobody really knows personally like that. I mean, it always there's this through line with Cassie that she's always wanting to just be closer, to just be with him, to just be in his presence, to just get to have more time with him. And it seems like a lot of his victims share that.
Sure. And there's a through line with him that always exerted extreme power. There's a humiliation tactic behind a lot of his fetishes within the testimony that I'm noticing bodily control, degradation, life-threatening fear, um, there was like the choking element. Let's just go to that specifically. That shows a desire to exert control over a life and death moment in sexual dominance.
If you could choke on something, you could die. That's a life or death moment. It should be taken seriously as that. I know that it sounds a bit dramatic or extreme to suggest that, but if you choke for too long, you're gone.
some severe and serious physical harm and potential trauma so if we're talking about even more which is why i wanted us to have this conversation because we need to start discussing things like anal sex like urinating on somebody these things are kinks they're fetishes if you're a sex positive person and you're able to be able to have access to information and understand all the ways to properly prepare yourself if both you and your the people
or person that you're engaging in sexual behavior with are all consenting, then understanding how to prep your body and prep the setting enough to understand where everyone feels safe and good about themselves.
Now, with that being said, I wonder on the flip side, because it's obvious that forced coercion and many other things were being exerted during most of the sexual experiences that the people testifying experienced. against Diddy are alleging.
In regards to the coin being flipped and looking at Diddy, now we obviously have not seen him, his side present his story or given us any understanding other than they have suggested that he is a swinger and that these types of behaviors are like how it is in the celebrity world and it's just an elevated lifestyle and everyone kind of knows what it is. I
I would suggest that I absolutely disagree with that. And I am somebody who was in that world and came from the regular, quote, regular world and lived in that very extreme world. But beyond that, I wonder almost even Puff, who was once just a regular human like everybody else and then became, as he likes to allegedly be by many people that testified, be known as the king.
the God amongst men, did he at some point start potentially in, is it possible that he started in a sexually positive place or maybe he was exposed to things in his childhood that made him understand sex in a more forward way, but that at some point he just lost the plot?
I have a question for you. Are Diddy's proclivities a little bit more common than people realize? Because I at one point was invited in just living in LA to a celebrity sex party and we had to dress up and wear masks. Obviously, I had no desire or intention to have sex there, but I definitely wanted to go assess the scene so I could tell everybody about it later.
No, Viv, you just said we have to give information to the people. They need to know what it looks like and how to keep themselves safe if they choose to be in the environment. So as somebody, I signed an NDA. I'm not naming names, but I will say that everybody was consensual. It was very performative. There was an actual performance that occurred prior to them opening up the rooms upstairs.
And kind of when I observed all of it, I just felt like, I didn't understand it and it didn't make sense to me because I didn't see love in any of it. And I didn't see that any of them knew each other well enough that they had a respect for someone that they were allowing inside of them. I just couldn't lock into it. And you can't observe for too long in the rooms. They kick you out.
They think you're being a little bit strange if you're just watching. Watching was fascinating, but almost fascinating in a way where my soul just felt like... hurt, but not judgmental, just hurt that I wish I wonder why there's something in me that's that can't just look at sex as sex. And just that.
Yeah, and specifically in regards to this trial, you can't pay for prostitutes to come have sexual experiences across state lines. These are part of the charges. You cannot pay... For any of that, you cannot bring people across state lines. You cannot have situations that are at all even seemingly not consensual. No force or coercion can ever be used in any of those types of situations.
Those are all unhealthy and, if proven, criminal.
You think an orgy is as much fun without a drink? I think if I had a margarita, it would be more fun and sober. Have you ever had one? Do you mind saying if you have or not or you're not going there with it? I'm so curious. I'm such a fan of you. I just want to know how you get down, Viv. Awesome.
Oh, man, you've definitely seen one. I can read it from your face. For those that can't see this beautiful face in front of me, she's definitely seen one. I'm calling it right now, allegedly. OK, so potentially, I guess I think the best place we can leave this off at is it's kind of ingrained in women that.
at least in my experience, that potentially in order to keep a man happy in long-term relationships, especially with very powerful men that have access to anything and everything, I've dated a few of those, a good amount of those in my life. There is maybe potentially this feeling that you have to up the ante.
I'm sure it happens just in everyday life and everyday relationships that aren't living at such extremes like in the celebrity world. But this idea that you kind of have to up the ante, I mean, I was told by my mom at a very young age, Learn how to give a good blowjob if you ever want a husband. You're not going to get one if you don't give them head.
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