Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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A lot of men just really prefer head over having sex. And so I try to tell girls all the time when they're like, oh, I don't give blowjobs. I don't like it. I sometimes like have this little fear in my heart, like baby girl, learn how to like it or your man's going to potentially want it from somewhere else. And I ask a lot of men in my life, do you guys prefer sex or blow jobs?
I hear blow jobs more than sex a good amount of the time.
Is there a pressure to up the ante when you're in situations like as a woman, if you're wanting to keep your man, I think we should definitely establish this for all women out there. What is a reason why upping the ante would not be a way to keep the man?
And also just to clarify as well, you know, this is not just for women. This is also for men. There are relationships across the board in every category where there is consent and coercive situations occurring. And most of all, you should, in my opinion, and I've been somebody who has and hasn't utilized my sexual toolbox properly.
To attract more love my way from somebody that I wanted or did love. It doesn't age well. I don't suggest it. And if you've done it, don't beat yourself up about it. Let it go. But understand what part of you desired that behavior and. Correct it and throw it out. Get into therapy right now if you don't know how to do that.
If therapy isn't available, we have such great access to people like Viv, the internet, this podcast in general. I mean, you can listen to many different things that are for free, that cost you nothing, that can help advise you as to what may be going on in regards to why you're wanting to utilize those parts of yourself. But sex is fun. Being sex positive is great.
It doesn't always have to imply any type of trauma or any type of instability. It can come from it. It doesn't have to come from it. It's a place that is healthy and even can be driven in those spaces, excitement, ecstasy, happiness, without drugs and all of the above. But if you're ever in any of those situations and you don't want them or you're only there because you think that as...
As somebody that's wanting to attract someone else, you're needing to up the ante. You got to get out of that and you got to get away from that because there is no ante you will ever be able to up that will give them enough happiness to stay with you. As we have seen with Cassie and many people that have taken the stand and alleged abuse.
This man didn't seem to be happy with any of them in any long-term situation. It is an endless road. It does not lead you anywhere good. And you would be better off at stopping, jumping off, and hitchhike yourself back to a place where you can start over and create the proper boundaries in your sexual life and your sexual thoughts and mentality, which can be as freaky as you want.
But just make sure that it's consensual and not just consensual with the partner, but consensual with yourself, your mind, your boundaries, your alignment for yourself. Make sure that all parts of you, your soul, your mind, your spirit are consenting in the behaviors that you participate in as well. Have you ever been peed on, Viv? Just say it. Yes or no. Quick fire.
Exactly. In the shower, it's not that crazy. I was like, this is cool. Whatever. I like it. If you like it. And we shared a moment. We laughed about it. It was great. The gag is who it was, but we won't get into that because I don't want to take down any more powerful big men. Yeah. Viv, you are so amazing.
Literally, it's been my dream in life to go on Married at First Sight when I'm done with whatever this stupid fame world is that I exist in. I've always wanted to just be a regular person that goes to my local office and applies for Married at First Sight so that a group of very capable therapists could find somebody that could handle the crisis.
craziness that is me, but I appreciate how many relationships that you've helped, how positive you are about sexual behavior and consenting relationships and how much work you put into bringing people together and teaching people how to connect in positive ways. So thank you so much for spending this time with me today.
Thank you, Dr. Viviana.
Hey guys, it's Aubrey O'Day. Welcome back to the coverage of the Diddy Trial brought to you by TJ and Amy. I am so excited. I know I always am excited about my guests, but I have a very, very established attorney who has got her own show with her husband on iHeartRadio called Legally Burnett. Emily, I have to say as one single non-lawyer, but think she is to one very...
House wifed up attorney who is legit. I am so happy to finally be talking this case with you. I really want to get into Mia bombshell this week. Bombshell for the prosecution.
I agree. I can't wait. You can teach me how to catch a husband after you teach me the law.
OK, so with Mia, I just want to first establish two days of testimony. She still is going to be in cross on Monday. We ended today with Brian Steele cross examining her. For those that don't know, Brian Steele is in most cases probably one of the best, most effective lawyers on Diddy's side. And probably this was one of the worst crosses in the entire trial for me personally. It.
ventured over into victim blaming which um at this point i think don the the therapist established for for the most part everybody's kind of established people that are victims do go back to their abusers they do uh have shame in their stories they do go back to things that are familiar in order to just forget and and not and pretend like it didn't happen in order to find normalcy again so
This contact back with abusers, this, you know, wanting to work back with them or communicate with them. It's a nothing burger for me at this point. If that's all you have, then you don't have much.
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