Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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She's a forensic psychologist.
And for me personally, you know, I was fired on national television after years and years of leading up this band for being raunchy and promiscuous and bad for business, which none was true. I wish at the time we were in a.
An era where things like Me Too and a lot of movements now that have occurred where you can go against corporations and you can sue people for wrongful termination and it is something that feels more available to us. Back then, even with parents as lawyers and very established lawyers surrounding me, no one gave me that idea. And now, of course, I'm past the statute of limitations.
But I have seen what happens when you don't do what he wants and you get fired and you get blacklisted. And I experienced blacklisting and I know what that looks like. It's very real. The threat that everyone is saying about not wanting to be. Well, I got to the other side of it and it's real. It's actually a real thing and it does happen and it's humiliating and shameful and disgusting.
Half of it I put out of my head and half of it I'll wake up out of my sleep sometimes and cringe that I was in that position. And I didn't understand even that it was all designed just to humiliate me a step further.
And also, how funny is it I end up being fired for being raunchy and promiscuous, and that's bad for business. If it's bad for business, well, then Diddy must be really bad for business because we all know that he likes a little raunchy and promiscuous at this point.
And that part right there for me is where I'm at with this. I feel very strong after Mia's testimony about what has been proven. And we'll get into that as we continue. But beyond that, I'm really interested in systematic changes. I talked about Capricorn's testimony. I would have liked it to go a little bit further into details of who made payments to her. And let's establish a few more people.
Because the trail is... you gotta remember that this man was still, in order to stay at the levels and operate at the levels of destruction that he was operating at for so long, you have to have your pockets continuing to be fed. You have to have the whole establishment basically behind you.
Now, how much people's knowledge of things were is always something that I assess, but my firsthand knowledge of when I was around, there were people that saw plenty of things and plenty of things could have been stopped by very big people. And it continued on. It continued on. They fired me.
And I even had to go back to reunion and get beat up some more under those same terminology statements, everyone knowing damn well that those things aren't true. I had to play the character of that. And they just allowed me to get lashing after lashing. They created a narrative that I could never get up under and, in fact, had to play into for most of my career.
I am definitely not sexy or pretty in my head. I've learned how to be according to society's standards, because unfortunately, that's the lane that I was left with. And that was the only opportunity I had when I left. Everybody pretended like there were opportunities and music in there.
But really, all of those turned out to be rooms that were built to humiliate and make me walk away in very big, deep ways.
amounts of shame and feeling like I wasn't good enough and like a loser not understanding that all of them were orchestrated and controlled and then the only person that came to me with a real big opportunity was Hugh Hefner to do the cover of Playboy and then that's how you end up going down a lane that doesn't necessarily feel like you but there's a lot of limitations in my contract my mom's a good lawyer so I didn't have to show anything I didn't want to show and
You know, you inch over into the pictures that are painted for you. I'm sure even as a reality TV person, you've had painted pictures of you created either by your cast members or by editing or producers. They're all involved. And you've had to find ways to sometimes lean in and sometimes absolutely establish no. Yeah.
And what I loved getting back to the testimony with Mia is she is the first witness to establish a different pattern of behavior in regards to sexual abuse. This isn't a girlfriend. This isn't somebody that that wanted to be a girlfriend. This is somebody that was an employee. This was somebody that was raped in ways where she's in a closet packing a suitcase and she
He's got his dick out and forcing it in her mouth. Allegedly, this isn't the standard freak-off, you know, staged event that's going on. We're now venturing into other territories of other abusive types of behavior. The force is still there, like in every other case. The coercion is still there. Basically, everything he did from making her live in his home...
Um, uh, the not eating, not, not being able, working ridiculous amount of days, four or five days straight. All of that was very standard. We went through that too. I mean, to me, I just felt like this is what it is when you are working at this powerful of a level.
It wasn't until I worked at that powerful of a level with that even more powerful, essentially, sometimes people that I realized, oh, these motherfuckers take a lot of breaks.
In all honesty, President, sir, you're a bit lazy on Apprentice. The work ethic was way different over this side. I learned that actually people do get water and bathroom breaks and food at lunch, etc. That was just not something that we were used to. But as far as Mia goes, she's a critical witness because unlike the other two governments,
victims this is just not a former romantic partner this is an employee she was sexually abused allegedly their victim blaming her on the cross and it's not really working for me it absolutely doesn't work you know you always have to wonder if there's that one person in the jury that just doesn't understand but then again you never know they always surprise you is kind of what every attorney has always told me along the way Mia in regards to Rico I feel she's established that in a big way
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