Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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I think at this point you need to tell a very strong tale of How hurt people hurt people. I'm going to need to know how he was hurt and why he hurt others. And I still would have to call him guilty because the facts of the crimes are the facts of the crimes.
But at least if I heard maybe if I were a jury member that doesn't understand facts and crimes, if you told me why this hurt person hurt people and his hurt was so deep that it fucked me up.
Those are the times where I've had sympathy for him along the way prior to getting into everyone's testimony, just based off of my general assessment of the time that I was in and knowledge of the times where I was not in, but had very reliable people that were in it along the way telling me everything.
I don't I was able to have sympathy at the beginning of the trial. I'm not getting it anymore. It's not in me. No, no, no. I'm out. None. None. Now we're now we're getting into territory where the alleged sexual assaults are looking different than staged events.
They're looking just like as also Cassie alleged rape. Mm hmm. That scares me deeply for all the unknowns in my own life.
We're breaking patterns now. We're going into territories that are different, and that concerns me. I've lost the compassion card. In the beginning, when you have 80 civil suits, And a lot of chaos. And I know some a good amount of the players. And I know, you know, I had a bandmate that took the stand and it was heavily reported that she was inconsistent.
And a lot of her testimony, you know, I've known her to be inconsistent. So imagine prior to all of this, knowing I believe this person is inconsistent and that and experiences that I've had with her, unfortunately, a good amount.
I think it did nothing. If I'm being nice, if I'm being like, you judgy, it hurt a little. It was the wrong thing right after Cassie to have somebody. The thing that I didn't love is the inconsistencies came within the depositions that the prosecution took. They didn't even have to bring up anything on her that they may have had.
And Cassie was believable to everybody that left the courtroom and talked to me. So I don't think we needed, and we didn't need to double down on the fact that she got hit because there's video of her beatings. Everybody knows what the beating looks like. We can't get it out of our souls.
I can't say.
I keep trying to get them to be able to be on the podcast with me, you know, because this started almost about two years ago for a lot of us. And all the things that people were being shocked by in the past two years, we knew very long. Yeah.
yeah some of it we've known since we've been there other things we've known went down dude we know every graphic detail no but we knew plenty of things i knew a few of the prostitutes i knew the person that owns the place that was giving the prostitutes to the that they were calling i knew one of the prostitutes was in prison it was on gigolos allegedly the guy that killed his girlfriend Yeah.
And he said he told them, no, it's not true. But then his face was up on that poster board in court. And I was like, that's it.
I think the other guy did an interview talking about he was on deck for it, but never got called. Basically, stop interviewing. No one gives a fuck. Stop inserting yourself in a moment that isn't about you, which is technically how I felt about. like even doing this podcast, I didn't want to do it. I was saying no for a very long time.
And the ninth inning, it got presented to me in a different fashion. And then I felt a little bit more, I learned a little bit more about the personal side of things that I'm still trying to figure out and that frustrated me. And then people came to me on this side and told me a way to do this that felt more credible and less like Wendy Williams, even though I love Wendy.
You mean less gossipy, tabloidy, more... I don't want to sit on a podcast every day and be interviewed about the dark, evil ways. I established in the very beginning, I don't have an ending that I want to see at the end of this. As more testimony goes on, I'm getting a little more heated. I got to be real with you.
I have to pace myself in between these podcasts and make sure that I come back down to a place where my biases aren't popping up because I have them. I said it day one. I can't not have them. My entire life turned out to be something different than what it would have been had I never met him. He course shifted my life. He course shifted many people's lives.
He not only course shifted my life, he course shifted my understanding of myself as a woman, which. Which likely, of course, shifted all the men that I chose to date in life and how I found myself valuable. Like I said, I was a nerd. I was into the law. I was a geek. I didn't really have a lot of friends. All of a sudden, I was the looker. There was a lot of pressure in that.
My toenails had to be perfect when I walked into a room or else I would get berated. I didn't even think about my toenails before that.
You know, I learned to groom myself properly and look certain ways and be certain ways. And when I disappointed him, I felt like I was ugly. And then for my whole life, I've been a fucking tabloid character to say I'm either obese, I'm this, I'm a plastic surgery nightmare, the asshole.
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