Aubrey O'Day
speaker
1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
Aubrey O'Day’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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The one time I was caught slipping, no outfit on, looking like shit, heavy during COVID, not as heavy as the photos, but heavy during COVID and slipping. That turned into a goddamn nightmare, made me lose a million fucking jobs, made me this big fucking loser that's lost it all. You can't even Google me without seeing those photos.
And I have been on Broadway to Playboy to having my own television show. to doing every other reality TV show on the fucking earth, to the podcast. Now, I don't know a lane that I haven't entered. I've literally done all of it really well and have platinum albums.
You'll get fat photos. You'll get Trump Jr. You'll get Pauly D. And you'll get puff every fucking man or ugly time. And by the way, there's not several fat photos. There's that one whole selection of that of that one moment in time.
One isolated event is now summarized me and every. And do you know, like what that does to someone that's been trained by puff? It's like you might as well just kill yourself. You just fucking lost the ball, bitch. Now it's like, that's the type of pressure that we learned. As a kid, at one point, my bandmate, past Danity Kane, I had a band with another bandmate of mine, Shannon.
Every day we'd wake up, we're hustling, we're doing this tour, and I'd have to go through all the problems from the show before. These need to be set. This guy's fucking up on his job. He's hitting the sound cues late. I need the lighting to come on early on this, watching videos, figuring shit out, doing everybody's job.
That's what I was trained by Puff to do, and that's what I do while I do everybody's job. So as I'm doing all of that, Shannon's talking with the Starbucks person, super nice, whatever, get in the car. She drives while I'm doing all the work. And at one point she stopped and she was like, we're at a venue and she's touching some brick.
And she goes, this is the last venue that Kurt Cobain performed in. And he signed this brick. Like, this is like pretty epic that we're performing here tonight. I was like, Shannon, the shoes, are the shoes on stage, right? Because last night you were late on that. Is this, is this, is this, is this? And she looked at me and she was like, OBS, like for one second, you need to like enjoy life.
She's like, we have gone to Starbucks every morning for the past year of building this project. And you don't even know Carlos.
Yeah. And Carlos's mom works in the deli. And her name is Patty. And she's really nice. And Carlos has a roommate and this and that. And she just told me this whole thing. And I stopped and I realized, shit, I'm just always like this.
Fixing.
And I realized like and Shannon said, we learned that from Puff. And because Shannon was married prior and she goes back to, you know, bend organ and her husband and a very normal, slow paced life.
She could come out of it. And she would tell me all the time, like, we were taught that you have to work so hard to get to the top of the mountain when actually you could just casually walk up it at a pretty like decent, steady pace that isn't painful. And you can get to the top and have had a pretty good life and enjoyed it, too.
pick some flowers, smell them. You can even pitch a tent and maybe take some photos and walk a little faster the next day. Like it doesn't, we don't have to like be starved, sleepless, freaked out, stressed.
I still find a heart and I still see victim aspects in that, even though I know other people feel differently and I have to consider their stories as well. It's all very complicated and layered. But at the end, if you were to get charged on everything, I think I'd probably first feel pretty. Sad for him.
You know, I said I didn't like earlier on in this call, but I guess if you tell they were talking at the end of this and it's looking it's not looking great for him. You know, it's a whole man's life. And he's a very, very powerful man that shifted a culture for a very long period of time. But the collateral damage was so deep that for whatever crimes he committed, he does need to be put away.
Yeah. So I would feel a sorrow for what his life will be when he can't be all the things in all honesty, maybe when you take all of it away, he can just naturally be in a state where he can be who he's maybe always wanted to be. If there is something like that happening deep down, I don't know, but either way, like there'll be that.
And then there'll be, you know, you have to remember after this is 80 civil suits and I don't fall under the statute of limitations on anything anymore, but there are some things that I need to get to the bottom of. And like,
there are some things that happened along the way that were traumatic as fuck for me and i want to understand them and i want the world to understand them as well because if i had to go through it and put on a smile to make all you motherfucking people watching me happy then you're gonna learn exactly what it looked like are you thinking that you'll file a civil suit at some point
When you're in a situation where there are a lot of victims and you're speaking to authorities, you're not allowed to speak with other victims. Now that there's a trial and I'm not subpoenaed, I know I can come talk here, obviously. But if somebody were to have seen something or there was something to have occurred and they're a victim, then I wouldn't be able to understand my situation until...
Their situation was resolved or until at least this situation was resolved because then I could actively start to call and ask and investigate.
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