Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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But because I called my mom, who's a lawyer, right afterward, I said, Mom, she told me, you know, don't, you need to make a record of this. And so you need to have somebody come there now and take a record of exactly what happens. But don't don't press any charges, obviously, don't take anything into a place that could be hurtful toward people, this can be a private matter. And then she also said,
I was like, but everyone's telling me to suck it up and that's just how things go. And I was saying like, you know, I'm being looked at like I'm being like a Karen. You know, we didn't have that word back then, but like a whiny white woman. And my mom was like, Aubrey, this isn't about color. This isn't about emotion. This is about love. you are in a workplace.
You can't normalize someone punching you because you don't agree on something.
What is she going to do the next time you don't agree? She already sees that she can punch you. What is she going to do next? You can't normalize that behavior in a workplace. I'm like, well, I'm not in a workplace, mom. I'm in the studio making music. This is my life. And she's like, that's your work. That's your job. You don't normalize being attacked at your job.
If that happened in any other workplace, that would not be okay.
You know, I know it sounds ridiculous. But it sounds like a story that we need to hear. We were all coming back and reuniting for, I believe it was the first time since Danity Kane had been destroyed in front of the world by Puff on making the band. When we came back, we all made each other a promise that we would focus on this.
As I had just released a solo project, I wanted to release music videos, etc. But we all said, if I go and do that and other people go and do their thing, we're not showing the community that we're connected to. And that was what was kind of pinned on us, like we couldn't get it together at the end of making the band. So we wanted to show solidarity. We all agreed on that.
Unfortunately, through a series of events, we found out that Dawn was shooting her own solo videos and doing her own solo things while we had just worked so hard on a group thing. which was frustrating for me on multiple levels. I had my own project that I sacrificed. I had people living under my house on my water, my gas.
I was the one driving her and others around because they don't have cars and everybody needed to save money. I was the storage for all of the merch, et cetera. A lot of time and investment went into these projects. And for me, my bandmate was concerned when we found out that a whole series of lies and inconsistencies were once again occurring with this girl.
We went in a studio and sat down to discuss it. And she was getting more and more angry. We started to see a side of her we had never seen. When she made a comment like, y'all better watch yourselves, this, that, and the other. I'm not the one. And I turned around. She was behind me. And I said, respectfully, Dawn, I'm not the one either.
And then I went back forward and said, like, listen, we need to be able to establish some type of work. And we were talking with our producing partners. So there was no lead, right? So no one could really get control of the situation. We all had to work through it. So before I knew it, she punched me. I flew into the headboard. I ran outside. My bandmate witnessed her.
screaming up and down the halls puffing her chest up aside of her we had never known and and and it was shocking I think she almost looked shocked to me that she let it out because we had never she was so soft-spoken she was innocent she would didn't talk dirty sexually she didn't even seem to have experiences like like she just was a whole different person and That she taught us who she was.
It was a whole different person the first time around. So, you know, now looking at all of this and understanding things that I know that occurred with her, according to people that were there and witnessed it again, we have to see what she can prove and what. where the consistencies are in her story. But maybe she learned some of that behavior during her time in Dirty Money. I don't know.
There was a lot of bitches and hoes. Diddy loved using those words. There was your mama's a hoe. I mean, she does not know my mother. Like, there was a lot of you, your mom, a hoe, bitch, this, that, and the other back and forth. And I was outside like getting counsel. And so I made sure that we took a record of what occurred that day with authorities.
And then we didn't return and allow anybody to talk us into it. She went later on, went and said, it's because of vocals. And we wanted our vocals over hers. And, you know, basically implied as she had told us before, she's a real singer, and me and Shannon weren't, basically.
But when you ask that specific question, yes, I wrote her after I received an affidavit that I can't talk about that we've discussed that I'm very concerned over. I called her or texted her, and then her assistant called right back, said her dad was in the hospital. He also ended the call saying when she gets off her flight, I'll let you know. But...
in this specific regard, I wrote her and I said, I told the assistant, listen, something scary is happening. This is way bigger than any like Danity Kane reunion. I'm not calling to get the band back together. I'm not calling for business opportunities, which is probably why I didn't get a call back.
I said, I'm calling because something scary is happening and people are telling me I can't trust Dawn and that she was doing things with Diddy and that she's working with them or whatever I was hearing. And I said, I need to know and believe that when it comes down to scary things, that we were all sisters and that we would all protect each other. And if I'm right, she will call me back.
And if I'm wrong, then I won't hear from her and so be it. I'll make peace with it. And I never heard from her. How long ago was that? I don't know when she dropped her lawsuit, but it was like maybe a few weeks prior to that.
I'd have to look when she dropped her line. It was in recent times.
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