Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
Aubrey O'Day’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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We stopped. Her and I did a side project together after we went on tour. Like, even after she hit me, we had a whole other three other tours after that when we reconvened. I mean, I forgave a lot. Wow. I forgave a lot, too much. My back is broken for how much I bent. Wow.
And protected it because, and even I feel uncomfortable a bit, but I trust you guys and I trust this process, but I feel uncomfortable a bit even saying this because what it does is it's dismantling our legacy. What Diddy has now- The group's legacy.
Yeah. And also like what everything that Diddy has done and is now being, now the world is seeing is dismantling our legacy. All of it is a dismantling of a legacy that I'm so proud of that it makes me physically sick. It's why a few of my band members don't want to go near any of this because they are sick that we are dismantling a legacy.
But if the legacy is going to be dismantled, I do feel that we need to have a bit more of a consistent player from my group speaking.
At the very beginning of my career, so that's how you learn, and in a very informative age.
the very crucial age where you understand who you are is when all this happened it it completely changes your life you're not the same i've been crawling up from under it for 20 years i don't even know who i am half the time i just know that when i'm gonna i could wake up to any headline at any time at any day and everyone could have turned on me it's happened about 70 million times so far
And knowing that what I've learned to keep consistent is my integrity and the way that I advocate for things. Those are the two things that guide me in my life. Everything else, the way I look, whether I dress crazy or not, whether I'm fatter or skinnier, whether my lips are injected or not, all of that is and how much it's criticized is neither here nor there for me.
As long as my credibility and my consistency, my integrity is aligned with what I know to be true. And that's why I'm always... leaving room for Don and Puff to potentially, for potentially there to be more to the story or for there to be something good there.
The cross-examination wasn't able to really discredit any of her testimony that I read. She established that Combs was not intoxicated or high when he got physically violent with Ventura on two occasions and when he sent her money and she signed an NDA. So that's establishing an organization that silences people. That's establishing knowledge of silencing people. That's establishing violence.
That's establishing no drugs because it's likely that his team is going to be very, very hell bent on establishing. This is a man that was a drug addict. He's had to go to rehab. It got so bad. Did he did his whole speech likely on purpose at some BET Awards honor that he got where he said, thanks. These four people for holding me down during the dark times.
Cassie was the last name mentioned, and it's a very palpable speech if you go back and watch it now, knowing all that we know. And you really should pay attention to all the names he said, because mm-mm-mm. What were the names?
T.D. Jakes. And then Cassie Ventura for holding him down during the dark days. And Lorianne for keeping him free. And T.D. Jakes, I don't remember what he said about that, ma'am.
Very, very strong witness. very strong witness to establish, one, I think she established a little bit of kind of how my experience is, is not in with the details, but you can get away from it if you want to. I didn't go, I didn't stay.
Listen, beyond even that, I had been telling people when I was fired what it is. I was more under contractual situations that were scary back then, so I couldn't just go straight for the target. But I've been getting more and more boisterous. I've been consistent for 20 years in telling people this is a problematic area, this is a problematic person to be working for.
And finally, 20 years later, instead of getting blacklisted, And having all kinds of things behind the scenes fail. I mean, I have labels that would call me in, ask me to dance and sing on the spot in front of roomfuls of people. One guy who's a very big person in this industry had me dance for about 15 minutes to like four different songs. I didn't even understand how that would be possible.
considered an audition to get a record deal but i was basically being humiliated then he goes outside to take a call and comes back in and is like yeah i just got the call puff doesn't want anyone touching you Like I was not, nobody knows that. I mean, I was being humiliated and at home crying left and right.
Like I've lost all of my music career and they were on television calling me a whore and promiscuous and all the, I mean, for all the words that he used when he fired me. I didn't know then what I know now is that they needed to take my fan base and shift it over to Dirty Money. And I was the fan favorite. And so they had to destruct the way that they know how to destruct.
and he utilized his tools which we'll all learn who the tools was were throughout this trial but but for me 20 years later i now have finally have everybody reporting aubrey told us so i mean it was literally a headline on like rolling stone like a credible outlet and and they say you know aubrey told you so and i did and i felt so empowered to get that voice back now like i told you guys when we first started this i had to shed the layers that needed to hear that part
So it didn't hit me the way I wish it could have hit the parts that are now gone. But to now open my eyes and getting the type of hate, and it's not even just hater. I never really cared about women. I never really cared to protect DV survivors. I wanted to just talk all this shit to be famous instead of,
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