Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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I think that as things come out and when I'm not exclusive, that you will be able to read documents that suggest exactly what his problem with me was and exactly what he wanted me to do or I was not needed.
I think the response of people online is disgusting in that regard, saying like, oh, what man would want? He must be memes of an embarrassed guy or whatever. God, it makes me sick seeing people interpret it like that because I don't think there's anyone on earth that loved her more.
She was able to finally get away from all of that that she was in because she fell in love with her trainer that Diddy got her. That's who Alex Fine is. He probably showed her a gentle, soft, kind love. He probably mirrored back to her because that's what we do as partners, right? That's why you stop loving sometimes a partner that you're with.
contractually in front of the world or not you stop being able to mirror back something that you want to see and then all of a sudden you go to work one day and somebody's mirroring you and you feel kind of good and you kind of like yourself again and you think you're neat and they think you're neat you we are mirrors for each other personal relationships are simply in my opinion
necessary for sure because it's the only person that you're getting that vulnerable with potentially physically fully physically giving your body to they're an absolute mirror to you when you do things that are not kind or good or questionable they mirror back a response to you and you have to see yourself
If you don't have any relationships like that, you're never learning or growing and you have nothing to observe.
Yeah, so do I. But I think he's proud of her. I think he loves her so much. He's supporting her. Yeah, he's there. Yeah, I mean, anyone that has anything negative to say about that, I think he is heartbroken. I think he probably wants to fuck up Puff. He probably is holding himself back from jumping over the table, as any man that loves their wife should. I think it is tense. The more tense...
interaction that i was very curious of is with puff because it's been spoken about as common knowledge amongst people that are in the scene and around that uh situation that it it was rough losing Cassie for him. And with Kim being gone, this would likely be the only other person that had these, that maybe he loved and claimed in front of the world like he did Kim.
There's not a ton of women that he's like openly claimed for very long periods of time. And I think he probably was sitting in front of somebody that he loved most in the lane of girlfriend and beyond Kim Porter. And then also somebody that he probably hates the most in life because potentially he sees her as responsible for being the demise of his entire existence.
And I thought the dynamics of also him knowing that that could have been the baby that's inside of her and that he could have had her child. He had children with a bunch of women throughout the relationship that he wasn't as open with as he was with Cassie. You know, I think that probably had to hit on so many levels. I can't even imagine the torture.
I don't think there are enough drugs that could make me go to sleep at night after that. For Cassie, I think that she's... being able to liberate herself as time continues potentially.
Completely relate. I've had many times where I felt that way. What it is is not... you know what the deeds done were what to what level the deeds were done to you because we all have experienced different levels with this man not even just with this man in general let's just make it a broad conversation it's the it's the disposable part that makes you want to go.
It's the being so easily disposed of. I'm an artist that put my whole life into this. You signed me. I worked my ass off. I've got platinum records and I didn't see a penny and now I'm driving an Uber and getting laughed at because someone recognized me on the internet. That's somebody's story. That type of
pain and knowing that you were able to work so hard to achieve levels that are almost that most people don't even get to experience of um accolades and it also should be a financial compensation because it's not easy to do the things that we were doing and we were worked to death there's literally like an episode of making the band where one of the tasks was you're not sleeping for three days
And can you handle it? That's how the industry is. Let me tell you something. I still, my band member, one of my band members who I went on to move forward with in a group as a duet, her name's Shannon. Until one day Shannon turned to me and said, hey, OBS. Because we'd go throughout the day and I'd just be putting out fires, handling shit.
She would sit and have pleasantries with Starbucks person. She'd sit and talk about the guy that was at the theater that we were playing at that night. There's a brick that Kurt Cobain signed and wow, the history of this. And I'd be like, Shannon, there are 8 million problems. We've got to do this, this, this. And she's like, listen, at some point we have to have
enjoyment you are so still trained under that ditty hand and before ditty through my childhood i had the same type of hand which is why i think it made it so easy for me to have the type of conversation that I was having in front of the world with him.
I've been trained to handle people like that when I was called a bitch or been body shamed or whatever the fuck was happening at that time all the time. I took it as I'd walk out of the room and be like, okay, watch. I'm going to come back and do it 10 times better. I never went out of the room and was like... No, I did those moments for other things, but not when I was challenged.
When I was challenged, I accepted the challenge like I did in my childhood. I one-upped it. So those types of personalities happen to fall into this type of pattern of grooming very comfortably.
I have to look back. Like, 2004, I believe, we started filming. It wouldn't have aired until 2005. I know that I wasn't of drinking age because I was, like— I reprimanded that I was everyone was older than me. I was a baby, even though people lied about their age. So it's maybe not won't look like that. But I was the baby of the group. I'm the only child of the group as well.
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