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Go ahead, Mona.

I think that...

The issue for my family why they didn't beat is because the connection with slavery with the belt thing.

I feel like when I think about that, it bothers me, right?

That we were beat as slaves and then now people beat their kids.

Also, I feel like a lot of people don't have the understanding of

If you're going to use beating for a consequence, you have to wait until you calm down and not be beating the shit out of these kids while you're angry.

And most people don't do it, and they end up either going too far or doing it for a reason.

They might not necessarily have done it.

You don't want to beat the kid because he pissed you off.

You want to beat the kid to get the kid to stop.

The more effort, therapy, some type of plan.

Time out.

Time out, whatever.

All right, Pam.

But situations where you have to be accountable on both ends.

You know what I mean?

So it's like mommy says she's going to take you to the park and you ain't feel like getting your fucking ass up and he flipping out.

It's like both of you.

You know what I mean?