Barbara Dreaver
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Do not reply.
That's tempting to put the record straight and they're lying.
Don't because it just validates them.
They go, oh, I've got to her.
Good.
She's replying.
And they feel important.
If you don't respond, then they don't even know if you've even seen it.
So it's better to go that way.
And my good friend, Tabula Blakely, actually taught me that because she gets a lot of abuse.
So good advice and I pass it on to you.
That's for free, everyone.
Thanks.
Yeah, I'm my publicity department at TVNZ's worst nightmare because I just won't do it.
And I've done, if I've ever done publicity before I did my book, it was on something to do with my work only.
I'll never talk personally about stuff.
And, of course, with the book coming out, it's just been... Flipped that script on its head.
Yes, and I had to... It's a different... You know, it's different from my job where I don't... Yeah.
So I found that part really difficult.
And I don't care if I'm in the piece or not on TV.