Barbara Grant
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374 appearances
1 recordings
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first heard Sep 2025
last heard Sep 2025
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some space to process what they're being presented with.
So if you verbally just say this to somebody, first of all, the odds that their shields might be up and they're not even really listening.
They're like, uh oh, she's coming at me with something.
Defensive posture, the ear shut, you know, the
The the red alert goes up.
So I say, you know what?
Put it in a text and put little heart emojis all over the good parts.
Because then there's no mistaking that this is positive communication.
This is suggestions.
This is not a dictate.
This is not a you better or else.
Right.
Right.
However, we'll I do want to talk about consequences because that's a big part of boundaries too.
So this is something to give in writing to begin with as you begin to test the waters with how receptive is your partner to hearing a boundary that's spoken lovingly, speaking the truth in love.
And that is intended to build and protect, not to punish and distance.
Right.
consequences are a big part of boundaries, especially mostly if the behavior is really destructive that you're trying to call out.
And destructive behavior
you know, could over time become abusive and really corrosive.
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