Becca Lori Hector
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621 appearances
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first heard Sep 2024
last heard Mar 2025
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Um, well housing is one of those major quality of life things, right?
So li you know, how you live, where you live, whom you live with.
deeply impacts your quality of life.
And there are a lot of variables that surround how we end up in various living situations.
And sometimes we have control over them, but most of the time we don't have control over all of it.
And I think that's how we most of us end up right in some of the situations where we're maybe not living with people who we
maybe wouldn't be our first choice, right?
Or we're not in a living situation that wouldn't be our first choice.
It can have to do with unemployment.
It can have to do with where in the country you live, right?
It can have to do with sadly the color of your skin, that you're disabled, right?
There are lots of unconscious biases out there in our world that create those barriers to equity for us.
Right.
Um, but we are always have a certain amount of autonomy that belongs to us, a certain amount of control over portions of our lives, right?
So we may look at our housing situation and we might say, you know, this is not a situation that I really like or is good for me and I'd like to get out of it, but I can't because of X, Y, Z, whatever.
But that doesn't mean that you can't change the way that you are living when you are living in that situation.
Right.
There are things you can do to take care of yourself.
Um, something that I think autistics struggle with a lot, um, in lots of areas of our of our lives, not just housing, is boundaries, right?
setting up boundaries around ourselves about what is behavior we will accept and what is behavior that we won't accept from other people.
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