Becca Lori Hector

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621 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Sep 2024 last heard Mar 2025

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But when we're in that moment, that waiting space of when we're trying to change things up, that's when those boundaries matter the most.

Right.

When we need to assert our safe spaces and assert ourselves in that there are certain things that are unacceptable in our area.

The se the secret to all of that is the self-advocacy piece.

It's being really vocal with your self-advocacy.

And that can mean saying things like, I appreciate that you tried to help me with X.

But I'd really like to do it for myself next time.

Right.

And that means a commitment to those boundaries because that person's gonna do it again.

Because habits don't get broken so fast.

So it means saying consistent with that.

So when they do it the next time, you say again.

I appreciate that you helped me with this, but I'm gonna remind you again that I would prefer to do it myself.

Right.

Because people need to learn.

They're it's I try to it's sad, but try to think of it a little bit like you're training a dog.

That dog doesn't learn to sit the first time.

Right.

They learn over the course of it.

So you're not gonna say to yourself in your head, I have this boundary, right?

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