Becca Lori Hector
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621 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Sep 2024
last heard Mar 2025
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And therefore everyone must keep it and that's it.
And then someone breaks it and you let it go.
Can't let it go.
You have to be committed to that boundary.
You have to say, You broke my boundary.
You have to communicate.
that those things are unacceptable and that doesn't mean you have to be unkind when you can make that communication.
Can say it very kindly.
And the other thing is you have to be patient and know that you're gonna have to reteach it a few times.
You're learning, you're wanting someone to do something differently.
So have a little patience as they're learning.
There's a way to remind them and also keep your boundary.
Right.
We can do that too, right?
And the most important thing is when you're setting up new boundaries for yourself like that, you must communicate them to other people.
They don't they're not mind readers either.
So just because you've set a boundary about your bedroom and your head doesn't mean that that was then communicated out.
to everyone you live with.
And so we need to figure out a way once we've decided on a boundary to communicate that to the people around us that we're going through a process of a change, that we're gonna be working on some things.
And one of those things that we're working on is XYZ.
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