Bela Gandhi

Like, oh, what do you do for work?

What did you do before that?

What are your hobbies?

What are you passionate about?

Where are you from?

Where is your family?

Do you have kids?

All of those basic questions.

If you've kind of thought through your basic sound bites of, am I talking about myself purposefully, truthfully, and in a compelling way, then I think you're fine.

And if you need to work on that, it's okay to work on it.

market after 20 years of being at home and raising your kids you'd have some trepidation about job interviews right and how do I talk about this it's okay to feel nervous it's okay to feel anxious right getting prepared is completely normal and something I totally advise people to do is it okay to share that you're nervous or anxious

Sure, why not?

You know, sometimes when I see speakers on stage and when they say, man, I am really nervous right now, right?

You sense the whole audience soften because they want that person to be successful, right?

And if you are nervous on the date, you can just say, I haven't done this in 20 years and you're my first date.

But let me tell you one thing that might help.

Before, let's say you've met somebody on a dating app.

Before you just message back and forth and then agree to meet this person out for a coffee or a lunch or a dinner or a glass of wine, do a quick FaceTime or a video date.

It's 15 to 20 minutes.

Easy peasy.