Ben Higgins

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And he did get one very, very, very useful piece of advice that you're going to hear in just a second.

But first, we got to say thank you so much for being here on a Monday.

We got a brand new episode for you on our Second Date podcast.

And we'd love to highlight a comment.

Just say yes.

Why can't you just have like a new crush?

Yeah.

Oh, wait.

Not allowed.

I can't believe I'm saying this, but if you're a guy on a dating app right now, looking back to 2024, those were the good old days of online meetups.

Just like a year and a half ago.

I don't even remember those days.

The golden era.

Don't even get me started on 2023.

They make documentaries about that time.

But things have really changed, whether it's just a generations thing or the culture.

The truth is, there's a lot of swiping and matching and chatting happening, but not a whole lot of meeting and hanging and actual romancing.

You do get the sense that people are just over it.