Ben Higgins

Or if it's one-sided.

What were you worried about?

Like you said, it made you worry.

I mean, I just kind of didn't really know how the next couple of months would look, and to have that commitment chat on the first date, I was like, I don't know really what to say.

Oh, so your life is a little sporadic, like your job or something?

No, I mean, it's just that it's about to be wedding season, and I'm in a wedding and going to three others, and...

I just kind of felt, am I going to have to invite this dude to all of these weddings now?

And if I don't, is he going to be upset?

Oh.

I mean, Alexis would know this.

Wedding season is like a whole thing for her.

You're like looking ahead being like, is it going to be awkward if I try to bring this guy around all my friends and maybe a family member?

I mean, two of these weddings, they're absolutely going to have to meet my grandmother.

So it's like...

Do you just make this person who you just met have the pressure of going to these things or am I going to hurt their feelings?

Like, I just I kind of felt like, you know, let's just wait till after the wedding season is done.

This actually makes sense to me.

It doesn't.

You say you can't bring an extra person.

But until wedding season is done, like how long is that going to be?