Ben Higgins

And so it was just kind of, no, this is new, you know, kind of jarring.

And it made me definitely worry about some things.

Usually you have that talk when you've been on many dates.

It's like your fourth date.

Then you're like, all right, what are we going to do next?

Or if it's one-sided.

What were you worried about?

Like you said, it made you worry.

I mean, I just kind of didn't really know how the next couple of months would look, and to have that commitment chat on the first date, I was like, I don't know really what to say.

Oh, so your life is a little sporadic, like your job or something?

No, I mean, it's just that it's about to be wedding season, and I'm in a wedding and going to three others, and...

I just kind of felt, am I going to have to invite this dude to all of these weddings now?

And if I don't, is he going to be upset?

Oh.

I mean, Alexis would know this.

Wedding season is like a whole thing for her.

You're like looking ahead being like, is it going to be awkward if I try to bring this guy around all my friends and maybe a family member?

I mean, two of these weddings, they're absolutely going to have to meet my grandmother.

So it's like...

Do you just make this person who you just met have the pressure of going to these things or am I going to hurt their feelings?