Ben Ilubuchi

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576 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 31 Jul

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The Hook Up · BONUS: We've decided to stop sharing a bed (w/ Dee Salmin!) · 31 Jul 2026 podcast

So why not?

Okay, my beef this week is with improper ghosting, people who ghost wrong, who don't do it correctly.

Now, before I get right into it, can I just get everyone's opinion or experience with ghosting?

You go first, Izzy.

Yeah, look, I have never intentionally ghosted a person before.

I think I'm like very, I will tell, like we could go on one date and the next day I'll be like, hey, I just wanted to let you know that I'm maybe not feeling things and I'm going through a lot.

I maybe go over the top.

I have found out later on that I had ghosted people.

People had felt ghosted by me that I didn't know I had ghosted.

But let me get your take on this.

If you hook up with someone and then the next day, neither of you message each other ever.

Is that, that's not ghosting?

You know what I mean?

and you hear nothing.

Yeah.

So I, again, I would never do it.

I have never done it intentionally, but even when people have intentionally ghosted me, I have, I got to a place, I'm in a relationship now, but I got to a place where I even accepted that.

What I have an issue with is people who try to ghost

but they don't follow the rules of ghosting.

So in my head, if you message someone, they don't say anything to you, that is scorched earth.

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