Ben Vasilou

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633 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 29 May

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But Are You Happy? · The Manosphere Is A Scamosphere (And This Is How You Fight It) · 29 May 2026 podcast

So very recently, there's been a discovery, I think by CNBC, that there was a particular website that was promoting, it was a place where mainly men could come together, share actual real life footage or tips and tricks on how to sexually assault and rape women.

And there was something like 62 million visitors.

Beneath it was about 1,000 active users of a Telegram group sharing different resources on sleep sex, they would call it.

So if we kind of just zoom back out and think about why women would choose the bear over men, a very, very beautiful friend of mine, she's a clinical midwife educator.

She got two beautiful children, posted about this on her social media.

And then the next story was, this is why we choose the bear.

I also get how it distances men from the conversation, but it distances men who are not prepared to learn and understand where women are coming from.

Women aren't saying not all men are bad.

What they're saying is all men have a responsibility to play.

They need to be accountable for not just their behaviour but the men around them.

Yeah.

And when I see it, I go, you know what?

I understand.

Yeah.

I get it.

It's just treated so much like this gender equity piece and men and women, all genders, it's being treated like a zero-sum game.

Like if we help men...

Women lose.

If we help women, men lose.

Like, where's the moderate middle where we all rise?

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