Big Sexy
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324 appearances
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first heard Mar 2025
last heard Mar 2025
Big Sexy’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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That's just what we do as people. But it's a degree of how you go about doing things.
Or she had a BV that a nigga gave her.
Or she would have gotten an abortion.
Yeah, yeah. I do not trust them. They stay 50 feet away from me.
Thank you so much.
The drink is amazing. I don't like that lychee. Okay. It's just a weird texture.
The drink. You like it? It's not even a 10 out of 10. It's a 15. Oh, come on now. It's delicious. It's the perfect amount of sugar. The perfect amount of citrus. Okay. It's delicious.
Down.
And this is the thing. It goes, I think, and I'm saying black because I'm black. You black. It goes hand in hand though, right? Because I do get how in certain areas as black gay men we can't be props. I understand that because we contribute a lot. Our slang, our fashion, our mindset, our loyalty. We love the girls and the girls love us.
And we're amazing, we're innovators, we're thinkers, we're creative, we're smart as gay people, right? But I think our biggest allies, especially for me in my life as a black gay man, has been black women. So, in a sense, a prop is subjective. It's what a prop is to you. Because for me, my biggest allies has been black women.
So, sometimes even when people think that I'm baiting or I'm saying certain things to just get on the good side of a woman, a lot of things I feel, for real. Because when I was experiencing my bullying... When I was experiencing my hardships, it was women that was there for me.
Was my mother. That was accepting of who you are. And that's why when people tell me I'm trying to be like this person, I'm trying to be like my mama. I am like my mother. Yes. I think and move and operate like my mother. But for me, women have saved me. So I have a different connection with them. But I do get that sometimes we can be props.
And what happens is, I was talking about this on another podcast.
because I was just trying to speak life into this young man, right, who had his perspective on being messy. Oh, I seen it.
Girl, you ain't seen, that was the light work for me. Man, that was the light work. Somebody called me up and said, hey, yeah, we got to get somebody on here that can take you because you're a lot. Yeah, I am. In real life. Because I'm very assertive and I know what I'm talking about. And even if I don't know what I'm talking about, I'm going to wing that bitch.
And you're going to think I know what I'm talking about.
I'm going to wing you too. I'm going to wing it down. And you're never going to box me. I'm going to always have a response.
But I think it's a two-way street, right? Because what I wanted him to understand was, You can be that stereotype of mess that they see gay men to be, right? Because all they're going to do is amp you and say, yeah, spill the tea. Yeah, stand on it. Yeah, say that. And guess what? As soon as their business is on the line, then you're going to be a sissy.
And then you're going to be seen as that prop that they just throw to the side. Mm-hmm. Because it's no fun until the cat got the gun. Right. So you can sit there and laugh at another woman's pain and laugh at her business when another gay man is talking about it. But as soon as your business is on the line, then that's when the prop, yes.
That's when the prop is in play. And so that's where I can understand how people would say a lot of times we're just props. Because when things go wrong, when things go left, a lot of times a lot of gay men, when you talk to them, it's a thing in our community. It's don't trust fish, fish got bones.
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