Brad Wilcox
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So that's certainly one, I think, challenge.
There's not a lot of clarity here.
heading into a cohabitation.
Another kind of point to make too is that people often have a much more kind of autonomous orientation.
They have the kind of thought that, well, I can kind of keep my freedom and sort of be in this relationship.
But then with that orientation, they keep it as they move into marriage.
And so one example is finances, right?
And so when people cohabit, they tend to have separate finances.
And then they keep their separate finances once they get married because they've developed this more autonomous orientation to their relationship.
So I had a colleague, for instance, at Princeton when I was in graduate school, and she told me one day that she was sort of frustrated with her husband.
And I was a bit curious because her husband was professionally successful, had a good income.
We had modest stipends at Princeton as graduate students.
And what came out is that they had separate finances.
And so he had a pretty big bank account because he was making good money.
And she was a graduate student with a very modest stipend.
She didn't have a lot of money and she wanted to buy a couch for their apartment.
and she didn't have the money to buy the couch.
And because they hadn't brought their money together, she couldn't buy the couch.
And this had all kind of begun when they were cohabiting.
So again, kind of this sort of more autonomous orientation often begins in cohabitation and extends into marriage.
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