Brendan Mahan

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611 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Sep 2020 last heard Sep 2020

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And if the reason I made the mistake is because I have ADHD, it's really hard to keep the guilt from becoming shame.

And in fact, shame plays such a prominent role in this that a lot of people mislabel it as the wall of shame, which is not what it is.

It's the wall of awful.

But

One of the ways that I kind of tease guilt and shame apart is I just think sometimes the ADHD wins.

And that helps me start a new battle.

It I can pick up the fight again and try to not

Trying to not mess up whatever I just messed up a second time around.

Yeah, yeah.

And eventually it becomes surface level.

And when it's going on below the surface

Maybe you don't have a wall of awful for that because you haven't noticed that it's a deal yet.

It's not bothering you yet.

So that might be a thing that you failed at infrequently enough.

Or with such low stakes that you just don't have a wall for it yet.

Um, or you might just not have the self awareness, which is totally an ADHD thing.

Completely fair.

Um, once you're noticing it, that wall matters and it's pretty significant.

And and it's not like we have a wall of awful for doing anything ever, right?

You get walls of awful for specific tasks.

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