Brendon Burchard

The people who don't recognize your worth, please know that usually they don't feel good. A lot of people don't feel good. So when they're judging you and not recognizing your value, it's not about you. They're in their feelings. They're in their own world. They're in their own traumas and dramas. They don't even recognize you. It's like you said earlier, they don't see you. They don't even know.

The people who don't recognize your worth, please know that usually they don't feel good. A lot of people don't feel good. So when they're judging you and not recognizing your value, it's not about you. They're in their feelings. They're in their own world. They're in their own traumas and dramas. They don't even recognize you. It's like you said earlier, they don't see you. They don't even know.

They don't even know what you're doing. They don't even care that you're dancing. They're totally oblivious. They're in their own world. They're in their own world. People are so oblivious, we do not realize how oblivious people are. They really are. And I don't mean that in a negative way. They're not into your space.

They don't even know what you're doing. They don't even care that you're dancing. They're totally oblivious. They're in their own world. They're in their own world. People are so oblivious, we do not realize how oblivious people are. They really are. And I don't mean that in a negative way. They're not into your space.

so first if they judge it realize they don't know you i think second is to realize that your job is to align the humans around you to be as good and caring and thoughtful and compassionate and growth mindset and oriented as you are It doesn't mean everyone will. It just means sometimes you have to decrease the amount of time with them.

so first if they judge it realize they don't know you i think second is to realize that your job is to align the humans around you to be as good and caring and thoughtful and compassionate and growth mindset and oriented as you are It doesn't mean everyone will. It just means sometimes you have to decrease the amount of time with them.

I got all this hate early in my career because I started teaching that there's three kinds of friends. and three kinds of people in your life. There's old friends, your high school people and other people, different parts of your life. You never talk to them again. They were just like, they were that chapter in your life. You don't see them again and you're fine with it.

I got all this hate early in my career because I started teaching that there's three kinds of friends. and three kinds of people in your life. There's old friends, your high school people and other people, different parts of your life. You never talk to them again. They were just like, they were that chapter in your life. You don't see them again and you're fine with it.

And sometimes they reach out to you and they're like, they're trying to come into your new chapter, but they're like, that was that chapter. And sometimes you need to be okay that that was that chapter. So you have to say, you're an old friend now. It's less time, less experience, you know? And then you have your maintenance friends. the people you see just enough to maintain the friendship.

And sometimes they reach out to you and they're like, they're trying to come into your new chapter, but they're like, that was that chapter. And sometimes you need to be okay that that was that chapter. So you have to say, you're an old friend now. It's less time, less experience, you know? And then you have your maintenance friends. the people you see just enough to maintain the friendship.

You text them just enough, you reach out just enough, just enough, it's maintenance. It doesn't mean they can't be good friends. And then you have growth friends. You expand the itinerary of things you do together. You want to spend more time and see each other and you're trying new things and growth friends are the best. Your job is to get as many of those as you can.

You text them just enough, you reach out just enough, just enough, it's maintenance. It doesn't mean they can't be good friends. And then you have growth friends. You expand the itinerary of things you do together. You want to spend more time and see each other and you're trying new things and growth friends are the best. Your job is to get as many of those as you can.

It doesn't mean these other ones don't exist. It just means you have to kind of align it. And if you have somebody who is extremely, the worst people to have in your life are people who are discouraging towards you. Not that they're mean to you. There's lots of mean people. But even mean people who are critical or funny, like I have a lot of friends who are like super British.

It doesn't mean these other ones don't exist. It just means you have to kind of align it. And if you have somebody who is extremely, the worst people to have in your life are people who are discouraging towards you. Not that they're mean to you. There's lots of mean people. But even mean people who are critical or funny, like I have a lot of friends who are like super British.

And I mean, that's like, they cut you down. They're so smart with the cynicism. Like, and I'm not a cynical person, so I'm just getting killed by these guys. But it's out of love. It's out of love, I guess. And I'm an easy person to make fun of me. Look at me. But they're so cynical and funny. And I wish I could be like that. I can't come back with a quick quip at them. So they just demolish me.

And I mean, that's like, they cut you down. They're so smart with the cynicism. Like, and I'm not a cynical person, so I'm just getting killed by these guys. But it's out of love. It's out of love, I guess. And I'm an easy person to make fun of me. Look at me. But they're so cynical and funny. And I wish I could be like that. I can't come back with a quick quip at them. So they just demolish me.

But they're encouraging of my dreams. And so if someone is discouraging you of you growing... And whatever that way is, they're controlling you, speaking down to you, shutting you down. Your job is to decrease your time towards them in whatever way it can. Sometimes that means a separation relationship. Sometimes it means a divorce. That's extreme. Other times it's like, you know what?

But they're encouraging of my dreams. And so if someone is discouraging you of you growing... And whatever that way is, they're controlling you, speaking down to you, shutting you down. Your job is to decrease your time towards them in whatever way it can. Sometimes that means a separation relationship. Sometimes it means a divorce. That's extreme. Other times it's like, you know what?

I'm not going to go to have brunch with this person every other Sunday. She's bumming me out. And you just got to find out like if someone's bumming you out, You need to be assertive in that situation and let them know, hey, you're kind of bumming me out. Actually, I need some encouragement and I want us to be good friends.

I'm not going to go to have brunch with this person every other Sunday. She's bumming me out. And you just got to find out like if someone's bumming you out, You need to be assertive in that situation and let them know, hey, you're kind of bumming me out. Actually, I need some encouragement and I want us to be good friends.