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Bryan Stevenson

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666 total appearances

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The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

I mean, for me, it's been important to commit to this concept that we're all more than the worst thing we've ever done, because I don't want to be judged by the worst things I've done. But I also realize I have to share that with other people. It's interesting, in this country, for a long time, we had legislators that

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

I mean, for me, it's been important to commit to this concept that we're all more than the worst thing we've ever done, because I don't want to be judged by the worst things I've done. But I also realize I have to share that with other people. It's interesting, in this country, for a long time, we had legislators that

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

When you listen to them talk about creating new sentences and punishments, they talk as if they can put crimes in prison. I hate that crime, so I want to give that 20 years. I hate that crime. I want to give it 50 years. And they're talking as if they have the ability to put a crime in prison, to put it in there for life and all of these other things.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

When you listen to them talk about creating new sentences and punishments, they talk as if they can put crimes in prison. I hate that crime, so I want to give that 20 years. I hate that crime. I want to give it 50 years. And they're talking as if they have the ability to put a crime in prison, to put it in there for life and all of these other things.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

When you listen to them talk about creating new sentences and punishments, they talk as if they can put crimes in prison. I hate that crime, so I want to give that 20 years. I hate that crime. I want to give it 50 years. And they're talking as if they have the ability to put a crime in prison, to put it in there for life and all of these other things.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

But we don't have the ability to put crimes in prison. We can only put people in prison, and people are not crimes. They can commit crimes, and we could want to hold them accountable for the crimes they've committed, but there's a difference between a person and a crime. And when we focus on the person, the conversation tends to shift. We tend to think differently.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

But we don't have the ability to put crimes in prison. We can only put people in prison, and people are not crimes. They can commit crimes, and we could want to hold them accountable for the crimes they've committed, but there's a difference between a person and a crime. And when we focus on the person, the conversation tends to shift. We tend to think differently.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

But we don't have the ability to put crimes in prison. We can only put people in prison, and people are not crimes. They can commit crimes, and we could want to hold them accountable for the crimes they've committed, but there's a difference between a person and a crime. And when we focus on the person, the conversation tends to shift. We tend to think differently.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

A woman who's been abused for 20 years and suffered just unimaginable pain and humiliation at at the hands of someone who just thought they could do whatever they want, who finally reacts, even violently, is not just a violent offender. She is someone who is trying to manage decades of abuse and mistreatment.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

A woman who's been abused for 20 years and suffered just unimaginable pain and humiliation at at the hands of someone who just thought they could do whatever they want, who finally reacts, even violently, is not just a violent offender. She is someone who is trying to manage decades of abuse and mistreatment.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

A woman who's been abused for 20 years and suffered just unimaginable pain and humiliation at at the hands of someone who just thought they could do whatever they want, who finally reacts, even violently, is not just a violent offender. She is someone who is trying to manage decades of abuse and mistreatment.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

And if our laws and our policies don't reflect the fact that she is more than that moment of of violence, that moment of reaction, then we're going to do something unjust. We're going to put her in prison for life without parole. We may even sentence her to death. We have reduced her to this worse act. I've never represented anybody who was only the crime they've committed.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

And if our laws and our policies don't reflect the fact that she is more than that moment of of violence, that moment of reaction, then we're going to do something unjust. We're going to put her in prison for life without parole. We may even sentence her to death. We have reduced her to this worse act. I've never represented anybody who was only the crime they've committed.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

And if our laws and our policies don't reflect the fact that she is more than that moment of of violence, that moment of reaction, then we're going to do something unjust. We're going to put her in prison for life without parole. We may even sentence her to death. We have reduced her to this worse act. I've never represented anybody who was only the crime they've committed.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

And that's the difficulty of not being more explicit about this concept that we are all more than the worst thing we've ever done.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

And that's the difficulty of not being more explicit about this concept that we are all more than the worst thing we've ever done.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

And that's the difficulty of not being more explicit about this concept that we are all more than the worst thing we've ever done.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

Absolutely. Absolutely. And I think what's been very gratifying about my work is that I see that play out every day in the clients that I represent. I represent a lot of children, right? And when you're 13 or 14 and you end up being sentenced to life in prison in an adult facility, there's a presumption that you must be awful and irredeemable. And I just think that's a mistake.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

Absolutely. Absolutely. And I think what's been very gratifying about my work is that I see that play out every day in the clients that I represent. I represent a lot of children, right? And when you're 13 or 14 and you end up being sentenced to life in prison in an adult facility, there's a presumption that you must be awful and irredeemable. And I just think that's a mistake.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
This Conversation Will Change Your Life: Do This to Find Purpose & Meaning

Absolutely. Absolutely. And I think what's been very gratifying about my work is that I see that play out every day in the clients that I represent. I represent a lot of children, right? And when you're 13 or 14 and you end up being sentenced to life in prison in an adult facility, there's a presumption that you must be awful and irredeemable. And I just think that's a mistake.