Bryce Carver
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357 appearances
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first heard Mar 2025
last heard Mar 2025
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I made mistakes in the past, but I'm going to wait now. I think that's the redemption that happens there. There is redemption. There is forgiveness. There is grace. But like my intimacy is valuable and it's for the person I made a commitment to. And so for me to say, well, you know, well, you know, my significant other, they're just not doing it for me.
So I need to find a way that makes me feel excited and please myself. Well, you're not making me feel excited, but porn is going to make me feel excited. So I'm going to go watch some scenes and, you know, and pleasure myself. Like, man, I'm just like totally disregarding the beautiful sex that I can have. In a marriage you say, not that valuable to me.
This is more valuable to me than what you're offering to me. And this is what I think the healthiest definition of sex is. What I've talked to healthy married couples, Christian married couples, they say the best sex is when both parties try to out serve each other. Where the man is trying to make the woman feel good. I'm getting really intense right now.
and the woman is trying to make the man feel good. That's the best sex is when you try to out serve each other, right? Any sex outside of marriage is selfish, because it's about how you're supposed to feel. And if I, even in marriage, I think it can be sinful in the sense that if I went into marriage and sex is in, I'm gonna make myself feel good, then I would be using my wife for myself.
And I don't think that's okay at all. Cause then that's going to make my wife not enjoy this gift from God in this covenantal marriage aspect. And so that's why masturbation and porn is like such a big thing. It's because like, Oh, well I got to blow off some steam. Why do you have to blow off some steam? Well, cause I need to feel good. I need to get rid of this pressure. I need to do this.
And it becomes a selfish act rather than, all right, I got this testosterone buildup. Let me go hit the gym really quick.
Sure. So that's where I would say the self-control comes in, right? That the love is the choice more than the feeling. I'm getting like, dang, my wife's tired. you know, whatever, but instead of like taking care of my, oh, well, I got this feeling. So I need to, you know, blow off some steam right now. It's just actually the, hold on.
Like what, what if instead of it being like a necessity, it's just become a habit, you know, what if it's just become a habit?
It's like, why don't you take some self-control and, you know, you know, like, I don't, I don't know the physical repercussions, you know, maybe I'll, I'll hurt or whatever that may be, or I'll be, you know, whatever, uncomfortable for a little bit, but like, I'm just going to like, choose to love my wife. And I'm going to say, you know what? I love my wife. So I got self-control.
And I think that's the whole marriage thing going through the nine months of pregnancy. And then the time after you, cause there's like a time period, like you said, where they're not allowed to, you know, have sex. It's like, well, I've just got self-control. Like I'll wait anything for you because I love you more than this thing. This thing's a gift. Right.
But I, I love you more than this feeling, this rush, this, this sexist thing.
I think that there's other things that you could outlet this testosterone because because you could say, oh, it's just a sexual urge. But if you really dial it down, it's testosterone. Right. And so we could like where could we redirect it?
Yeah. Yeah. I think the last thing I want to talk about. And we talked about it a little bit last time. And again, I think this is where I get down to this moral compass with you. As I asked you last time, would you want your daughter to do what you and your wife do? So...
Well, I think the general response would be if you ask me how I'm doing, I'm good. I think everybody does that. But I think if you maybe with that girl in particular, the girl is like, oh, you know, I don't do anything but post what I post on Instagram. I mean, maybe if you had a private one on one deep conversation with them, maybe they would say, yeah, I'm not doing good.
You never really know how someone's really doing until they get really vulnerable and honest with you. But I appreciate your honesty. I think if we stay logically consistent with, well, I wouldn't want my daughter to do this.
if you do continue to do it but you feel that way about your daughter technically you're non-verbally endorsing the behavior right and so even though you feel this way and you're like well you know i wouldn't want you to do this and things like that and she still does it but what what you do is like unintentionally setting an example for things to do so like there were things that my parents said growing up that i just like never wanted to do but then i've seen it naturally come out of me
And I'm like, why did it come? Well, it's like why I didn't want to do those things, but it's just because I've watched it happen so much that it just naturally happened in my behavior and my character. And now I'm like, I acknowledge that came out of me. I'm going to try to fix this, things like that.
Now I know that's totally different than career, but I just feel like if we stayed consistent, wouldn't that make you want to not do it?
And again, that's this conversation. We're having a raw conversation about something that not a lot of people would be willing to talk about on the internet right now in a public setting.
But I feel like having No Jumper where it's a space of nothing's off the table to talk about versus the other podcasts you do where it's strictly porn and then strictly sex and then you do it afterwards for entertainment on OnlyFans or wherever you guys post it. I feel like that is taking it to another level of extreme where it's like, okay,
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