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You know, with our money and our children, but with my heart, if I start sharing more of myself with you, do I trust you?

And that was a lot of us is it was kind of, you know, for me, it felt like a bit of an embarrassing thing, how long it took me to trust, you know?

You know, you look at Song of Solomon and you go, their intimacy looked like springtime.

Are we helping each other grow?

Do I sense in myself a growing sense of commitment?

That was the best advice I got from a friend.

Everyone would say, oh, you just know.

And I'm like, no, you don't just know.

How do you know?

And he said, Ben, every relationship I was in before, as soon as we had like a disagreement, there was a part of me that was like, I knew this wasn't going to go good.

And so we saw that and just like, Hey, we, if there's a disconnect, we want unity.

And so a growing sense of commitment, a growing skill of communication to overcome barriers and,

I think if you don't have those in a relationship, you're not going to make it to marriage.

Yeah, totally.

I mean, I'm curious to hear what you would say.

I can go first on that.

But I mean, I do think you want, when it comes to a cause, I am chasing the Lord Jesus Christ.

Like if you are a Christian, you don't want to go,

What's the minimum amount spiritually we can agree on?

You just don't want to do that.