Camille Fornela

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The Budgetarian Bride: The Podcast · Wedding Regrets : How to Move On? TBB S2EP6 · 6 Apr 2025 podcast

Pero sabi ko nga, we have to learn how to forgive. I have to forgive myself. I have to be at peace na alam ko sa sarili ko, we gave our best nung time na yon. That's what happened. Siyempre kahit sino namang bride yung nagpa-plan ng kasal, gusto natin yung best for ourselves, right? Pero at that time,

Kahit naman umiyak ako ngayon, anong magagawa ko kung yung sarili ko before, younger self ko, ay limited yung alam niya sa wedding. Wala pang wedding planning ebook that can guide her step by step sa kasal niya. Wala pang the budgetarian bride where she can get a lot of wedding ideas from real-life brides and grooms. So for me...

Kailangan kong patawarin yung sarili ko na this is the only thing na alam niya. She gave her best. I appreciate my younger self. Binigay niya yung best kind of wedding na kaya niya at the time at afford niya. So, you have to be at peace dun sa younger self mo. Kasi yun ang yung best na kaya ninyo. You did your best naman. I'm sure hindi mo sinadyang sabutahihin yung wedding mo. You did your best. Yun nga lang, hindi lahat ay umayon sa plano natin.

And it's okay. Now, paano naman kung ibang tao yung nagkukos ng stress mo? Kung hindi ka confrontational na tao at hindi mo siya kayang kausapin, siguro ikaw, sa sarili mo, you have to understand din ano ba yung point of view ng tao na yun. Bakit niya ginawa yung bagay na yun? Halimbawa, kay photographer, bakit ba hindi niya kami nakuhaan ng family kami?

Think of scenarios, why did it happen? Baka naman kasi nagpa-picture pala ng sobrang dami ikaw at saka si maid of honor. Hindi man kayo nakunan as family, baka meron siyang magagandang shots ng ibang mga wedding guests. Or baka mamaya mauubos na yung oras ninyo kaya hindi na niya nabuo yung family picture ninyo.

So, think of different things kung bakit ginawa niya yun. I'm sure hindi naman niya sinasadya. Gusto ng mga wedding suppliers natin maging masaya tayong mga brides. Kasi syempre, kung i-refer mo sila sa mga kaibigan mo, edi additional business for them. Professional suppliers would want their clients to be happy.

Ayaw nilang maging malungkot kayo. So hindi nila isasabotage yung wedding ninyo unless is scammer yun. Pero kung sila ay mga professional suppliers, yung talagang marami na silang naging kliyente, they would strive to be the best in their craft. And yung mga ganitong bagay, hindi nila sasadya na magkaroon ka ng wedding regrets dahil sa kanila.

they would want you to remember them in a good light. Gusto nila ma-recommend, gusto nila ng good reviews. You can ask any supplier na professional about it and gusto nila ng good reviews mula dun sa clients nila. So, hindi nila yan sasadyain na magkaroon ka ng wedding regrets. So, maybe you can think of ways bakit kaya nangyari ito. Or maybe you can find what's the silver lining in this situation. Ano yung pwede kong matutunan from this situation?

I've heard that kanina, actually. One of the best life coaches na kilala ko, si Coach Mike Seles. Ayan, sabi niya, if something happened, kailangan una magkaroon ka ng acceptance. It is what it is. Nangyari na siya. And, you have to see what's the silver lining in all this. What are the things that I can learn from this experience? Okay? And then, ito.

Aside from the things na pinatawad mo na yung sarili mo, pinatawad mo na yung mga suppliers na nag-cause ng wedding regrets mo, yung mga wedding guests na nag-cause ng stress mo, moving forward, maybe you can ask yourself,

Is there a better way to move forward? Bukod sa pag-forgive sa sarili ko at sa ibang tao. Alimbawa, may message sa akin. Sabi niya, Miss Camille, hindi ko nagustuhan yung naging final pictures namin nung wedding.

So sabi ko, kung yung pictures lang sa wedding, I think madali naman siyang i-reduce. Marami na nga yung studio. Pwede kayo pumunta sa studio, suot niyo ulit yung outfit ninyo and then magpa-pictorial kayo. Yung iba naman, sa kanilang first wedding anniversary, nagkakaroon sila ng post-nap and they hire photographers ulit.

So that, babawi sila sa mas magandang pictures. O halimbawa, hindi mo nagustuhan yung video, baka pwedeng ipa-edit mo ulit. Ask or hire someone to re-edit the video the way na mas ma-appreciate mo yung video. Okay? So, always ask yourself, what are your options to move forward? Okay? Now, number three.

You have to accept that no wedding celebration is perfect. Sigurado ako dyan. Hindi ka nag-iisa. Kahit na yan ay wedding ng mga artista, ng mga mayayaman, kahit pa sila ay gumastos ng million-million for their wedding, I'm sure, hindi yan perfect. May nakalimutan, may nalate, may mga aberya rin yan. Pero hinding-hindi mo yun malalaman.

Why? Kasi sa social media, we only post the best bits, the best pieces ng wedding. Right? Very few people will actually post yung nangyaring hindi maganda about their wedding. Kaunti lang yung magkukwento about their regrets.

Karamihan sa mga ikinakasal, kapag pinakita nila yung wedding album nila, you will only see the picture-perfect parts. Right? Pero deep inside, hindi ka nag-iisa. Hindi lang ikaw ang nakakaramdam o nagkakaroon ng wedding regrets. Meron din yan sila. There are things that they could have done better.

Hindi yan 100% talaga na nangyari as planned. Pero again, hindi mo na yun makikita because they don't dwell on that. They don't broadcast it. So, ganun ka rin. You don't have to broadcast it. Again, sabi mo nga, ikaw lang yung nakakaalam kung ano yung nagkamali. Other people think that it's best. It's a grand wedding celebration. Got it? So again, baka kailangan mo lang yung number 2. You have to forgive yourself.

And then ito, number four, pinaka-importante, change your perspective. What are the most heartfelt moments in your wedding? I know madali talaga yung brain natin maghanap kung ano yung mga pagkakamali, yung mga pagkukulang. We are so hard on ourselves. Bakit hindi mo na perfect? Itong ito lang gagawin mo.

Pero nakakalimutan natin na hindi naman yun yung main goal ng wedding. Napakasalan mo ba yung love of your life? Are you happy dun sa taong tinatawag mong asawa mo ngayon? Kasi...

that can change your perspective. Pwedeng hindi perfect yung wedding ninyo, maraming aberya. I've featured a wedding sa The Vegetarian Bride na nung wedding nila ay bumagyo ng sobra-sobrang lakas and to the point na hindi nakarating o nakatawid sa reception venue nila yung mga wedding guests. And itong couple na ikinasal, alam nyo, hindi sila nakapag-bridal car dahil nga mataas na yung tubig. Sumakay sila sa truck. Truck kung saan,

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