Cara Delevingne
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I think, I think when I was in my first real relationship with a woman and I think I'd never been with someone who was gay either.
And, you know, we, she was 10 years older than me.
And I really admired her.
But yeah, I'd never been with someone who was actually gay and not, we're kind of in secrecy and stuff like that.
And I was like, oh, this is everything.
Oh, I didn't come out because that's again, a conversation that I didn't know how to have.
And I didn't feel like I owed that to anyone either.
And I think it would be unfortunately different.
And I think I would have found it a lot harder if I hadn't have been famous or successful, because I think you can't really have an opinion too much.
when that person doesn't need you or is not vying for your... I mean, of course, I always want to make my parents proud, but I wasn't like... They couldn't stop me.
And I felt like they would have been able to.
They would have been able to have an opinion more if... I don't know.
I think that was also just part of the drive of wanting to
look after myself and survive on my own and be like, I can do and be with whoever I want.
Yeah, but also in that point, the industry didn't want me to be gay either.
You know, there was, why?
But like that point, that point when I just started acting where like Harvey Weinstein called me and was like, you can't be gay.
It's just stuff like that where I, again, there were also no real gay models, but it's weird because now you're,
Now, as I've grown up, there are so many people I went to school with or people I was close with who now we're all gay, but we didn't know it at the time, but we were all friends.
And you're like, that's just interesting.