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Carissa Véliz

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Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

The only thing that is more dangerous than being blind is thinking that you can see something when in fact what you're seeing is an illusion.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

And often predictions make us have the feeling of safety, but it's an illusion and we're not seeing the actual risks.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

So that's something to bear in mind.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

I also want to make a very important distinction between predictions about things or natural phenomena and predictions about people or social predictions.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

If I predict that it will rain tomorrow, it will have no effect on whether it actually rains.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

The clouds aren't listening to my prediction.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

They don't have agency to do otherwise.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

But when I make a social prediction, that's very different because it changes the expectations of people if people believe me.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

And that changes that which I'm predicting.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

So social predictions have a tendency to become self-fulfilling prophecies or to act like magnets.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

They bend reality towards themselves.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

So if I tell a student, I think you're going to do great at this exam, it might encourage them and make them do better.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

Whereas if I tell them, I think you're going to flunk this exam, it might be so discouraging that they might do worse than they otherwise would have.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

So we need some guidance as to which kinds of predictions are the ones that actually enlighten us and are helpful to navigate the world, and which kinds of predictions might be leading us astray at best or at worst, creating incredible kinds of injustice and then covering them up.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

That is true, but there's a lot of nuance about it.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

For example, in the case of making decisions about loans or about jobs, we never collect the data of the person who didn't get the job.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

So data can be very misleading sometimes.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

And sometimes, in other cases in which we're looking at events that we've never seen before, for example, climate change, there is no database about it, about the future.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

And having data but not having the right data can sometimes lead us astray by making us think that we can just project the future from data from the past, when in fact we're looking at something that is substantially different from what we've seen before.

Something You Should Know
What Your Attachment Style Reveals & The Trouble with Predictions

Yes, and for the most part that is obviously a smart way to navigate the world.