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Carl Lentz

๐Ÿ‘ค Person
816 total appearances

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Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Because I'm not going to go through all this pain and not maximize it. So if one of the things coming out of this is telling other people, hey, by the way, you don't ever have to live. dishonest or in shadows or withholding, that's what I'm going to do. One of the beautiful redeeming parts of our story is that I do get to be able to use that as a front facing opening line of transparency.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

You can check out my story. It's right there. You can read about it for false or not. It's there to see. And I can honestly tell you transparency is something that I believe to be vital for sure.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

You can check out my story. It's right there. You can read about it for false or not. It's there to see. And I can honestly tell you transparency is something that I believe to be vital for sure.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

You can check out my story. It's right there. You can read about it for false or not. It's there to see. And I can honestly tell you transparency is something that I believe to be vital for sure.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

I think it comes down to, and this will be a thread in the transparency discussion, the better question is, what are you willing to accept? If you're not going to be transparent, what is that going to cost you? And if you can live with that, cool, but don't lie to yourself. So I've got something I need to share. If I don't share it, it will cost me this.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

I think it comes down to, and this will be a thread in the transparency discussion, the better question is, what are you willing to accept? If you're not going to be transparent, what is that going to cost you? And if you can live with that, cool, but don't lie to yourself. So I've got something I need to share. If I don't share it, it will cost me this.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

I think it comes down to, and this will be a thread in the transparency discussion, the better question is, what are you willing to accept? If you're not going to be transparent, what is that going to cost you? And if you can live with that, cool, but don't lie to yourself. So I've got something I need to share. If I don't share it, it will cost me this.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

If I do share it, it's going to cost me that. What can I accept? So that's really what transparency comes down to is like, what do you want to accept? How much peace do you want? How much disempowered area in your life do you want to keep? And that's on you. So that's how I gauge it now. I'm like, okay, price tag of this honesty is going to be this. Yeah, I'm going to pay that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

If I do share it, it's going to cost me that. What can I accept? So that's really what transparency comes down to is like, what do you want to accept? How much peace do you want? How much disempowered area in your life do you want to keep? And that's on you. So that's how I gauge it now. I'm like, okay, price tag of this honesty is going to be this. Yeah, I'm going to pay that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

If I do share it, it's going to cost me that. What can I accept? So that's really what transparency comes down to is like, what do you want to accept? How much peace do you want? How much disempowered area in your life do you want to keep? And that's on you. So that's how I gauge it now. I'm like, okay, price tag of this honesty is going to be this. Yeah, I'm going to pay that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Or no, I'm not going to pay that. Because there are times where I'm not going to be transparent with somebody. Because I've accepted the fact that if I do that, it makes me feel unsafe and I don't trust you. So I can accept withholding this part of me until I believe that's real. So I'm choosing that. But as long as I'm in control of it, I have the power.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Or no, I'm not going to pay that. Because there are times where I'm not going to be transparent with somebody. Because I've accepted the fact that if I do that, it makes me feel unsafe and I don't trust you. So I can accept withholding this part of me until I believe that's real. So I'm choosing that. But as long as I'm in control of it, I have the power.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Or no, I'm not going to pay that. Because there are times where I'm not going to be transparent with somebody. Because I've accepted the fact that if I do that, it makes me feel unsafe and I don't trust you. So I can accept withholding this part of me until I believe that's real. So I'm choosing that. But as long as I'm in control of it, I have the power.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

If I don't, then my honesty or lack thereof is now dictating how I move. And I don't want to live a life like that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

If I don't, then my honesty or lack thereof is now dictating how I move. And I don't want to live a life like that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

If I don't, then my honesty or lack thereof is now dictating how I move. And I don't want to live a life like that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

As a leader, it takes two major things. It takes time and it takes faith. So it takes time to prove new habits, new thinking, new results. And then it takes faith from the people that are in your world to give you an opportunity to show it. Because neither of these two things you are owed when you break trust.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

As a leader, it takes two major things. It takes time and it takes faith. So it takes time to prove new habits, new thinking, new results. And then it takes faith from the people that are in your world to give you an opportunity to show it. Because neither of these two things you are owed when you break trust.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

As a leader, it takes two major things. It takes time and it takes faith. So it takes time to prove new habits, new thinking, new results. And then it takes faith from the people that are in your world to give you an opportunity to show it. Because neither of these two things you are owed when you break trust.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Let's just say, if I'm a leader in your life and I broke your trust, it's going to require for us to have a new chapter. I'm going to need time to prove my words are not just words, but I'm also going to need faith from you to give me an opportunity to even show it. If one of those two things isn't in play, it just leads to a really shaky outcome.