Carla Harris

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1,046 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 11 Jun

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Because sometimes we think we are failing as a mother or a parent because we're not at every soccer game.

or we didn't make that phone call, or oh my gosh, we forgot that play date, right?

And sometimes we're evaluating ourselves, as I said, against somebody else's report card and not what matters to our family.

So I say when mothers say, well, I didn't make one soccer game.

I say, did you ask Johnny whether he cared about the soccer game, whether or not you showed up?

Maybe he rode the bench the whole season and he didn't want you to see him riding the bench.

Or maybe you say, mommy's going to make five of your games.

I know you got 10, but I'm going to make five.

You pick the five.

And then you move heaven and earth to try to get there to that five.

And if you miss one, then you got to figure out what's going to make Johnny happy and forgive you on that one.

But you can't keep carrying the baggage, right?

Figure out what success looks like, just like I would figure out what success looks like for a board meeting.

Figure out what success looks like in this engagement with your kid right now.

You know, when I leave here, I know that I'm going home to do, you know, put to bed duty.

Right.

So and for my 10 year old, that means one thing.

For my six year old, it means another.

But I know what's going to make her happy and I know what's going to make her happy.

And that's what I'm going to deliver when I get home.

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