Carolina Hidalgo-McCabe
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 11 Aug
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But I do think in the post, I one time when I asked someone what's the hardest thing about being a man, his answer was growing up in the post me or like coming of age in the post Me Too era.
He was like, I never know which I had thoughts about that answer.
But I think there is some truth to it of like not knowing what crosses the line and flirting or not, like how to like how to tell someone they look beautiful without making them feel uncomfortable.
Like those rules are all being rewrit rewritten right now, and all of a sudden if you could just talk to an AI
companion you could say whatever you want, then all of a sudden a lot of young people are probably like, oh, that's so much easier than having to go through these unwritten rules of social interaction.
But I do think we kind of paved the way to get here with all the dating apps where
Like when I was in college, that was the big tinder, fumble, whatever it may be.
But you were constantly being rejected all the time without even knowing it.
Like someone else on their phone while you were sleeping was swiping left on you.
And you didn't even know that you were being rejected.
But what AI so that took away some of the friction of a relationship because you're like, ah, like I don't have to risk putting myself out there in person and be like
But then AI is just taking away all rejection.
Like you can't get rejected with AI unless you stop paying for an AI companion.
But what is that gonna do when all of a sudden you're rejected in person for the first time and you have no experience on how to deal with that rejection?
How do we get people offline?
That's a long time.
So if you know if there are men listening to this that do not have like a group of guys to do this with, how do you recommend they do some of those co regulation techniques or affirmation techniques within their own day to day life?
Yeah, that's brilliant advice.
And I recently listened to the Daily had their modern love series and one of them was Where have All My Deep Male Friendships Gone?
And one of the rules he like furthered in that episode was he was saying, like, if you have a couple friends, make sure you text them at least once a week.
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