Casey O'Roarty
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1,450 appearances
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first heard Aug 2016
last heard Apr 2022
Casey O'Roarty’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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But you can be sure that if you're having a really hard time with one of your kids, starting at the very base root level with looking for ways of connecting and really exploring, like, how have I been connecting with my child?
What does our relationship look like?
And if you can focus there,
You're going to make much greater strides towards more cooperative behavior than just looking for new and different ways to apply consequences.
We also talk in positive discipline about there being four goals of misbehavior, again, all around belonging and significance.
So there's misguided ideas about belonging.
So I only belong when I'm the center of attention or getting attention.
You know, you see disruptive behavior, interrupting, clowning around.
You know, I'm sure listeners are like, oh, yeah, I'm familiar with that.
Or I
right.
I counter belong only when I'm in control or proving no one can boss me.
This is the power struggle situation.
So.
Again, looking at your own behavior as the parent and recognizing when you're not offering a lot of opportunity for your kids to share in the decision making.
And by decision making, I don't mean like let's all decide where we take a vacation, but really simple things like, hey, you know, it's important that we have time in the afternoon for homework.
you know, what is the time between three and five?
When would you like to do?
What 20 minute period of time would you like to do your homework?
Or, you know, here's the things that we need to do before bed.
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