Casey O'Roarty
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1,450 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Aug 2016
last heard Apr 2022
Casey O'Roarty’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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You need to.
This isn't OK.
what is happening to that sense of belonging it's just further proving the point that to count or belong you must be the baby I worked with one woman who would come in she did a whole the whole seven week class with me and and she was not buying this belonging and significance thing and she her third of four children was really cruel to the baby and would bite him anytime she walked by she would just lean right over and bite the baby and she was I think two at the time and
And she says, you know, and I've, you know, given her a timeout and I've yelled and I've bitten her back and nothing works.
And I said, OK, so if nothing works, I'm going to offer something just to play with and just see.
Right.
And so I said, next time it happens, try pulling her in close, telling her how much you love her and seeing if that changes anything.
And so she came back the next week with tears in her eyes and said, I pulled her close.
I told her that I loved her.
I also told her it was not okay to bite the baby.
And she said, and she hasn't bitten the baby since.
Wow.
Right.
And just a testament to that belonging and significance piece.
When kids feel connected, when they know that they matter within the family system, they are going to show up better.
Granted, you know, with the really younger kids, there's also developmental things going on.
Like I have to explore everything and touch everything.
And and that's not a child being naughty.
That's a child growing.
you know, following their instincts to explore the world and to feel some independence.
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