Casey O'Roarty
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1,450 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Aug 2016
last heard Apr 2022
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They don't have any time for me.
They don't care about me.
Forming a belief of to belong in this family, you must perhaps be the baby.
Right.
And we read.
about, you know, okay, when you have a new, introducing a new sibling can often lead to regression in an older child if they've been potty trained or weaned or they might get whiny or clingy.
But I've never really read anywhere outside of positive discipline where there's this background information as to the why.
And this is what I find fascinating, right?
This is
To me, you know, the most powerful piece of positive discipline is to recognize that this child is not being naughty, right?
Is not just, quote, looking for attention, but really has gone through this process that started with perception to lead them to their own private logic about belonging, which is either I can belong by acting like the baby.
regressing, you know, getting clingy and whiny and needy.
I can I can belong by getting rid of this baby.
And I can't tell you how many clients I've worked with who can't understand why their older child is so mean and hurtful to the new baby or to the younger sibling because it can carry on as they get older.
I can counter belong by being a super duper helper.
And all of these make sense for that child.
And then we, as the loving and doing our best parents, respond.
Typically, at that point, sleep deprived can respond emotionally.
So, you know, the child who feels like, you know, you have to belong to be the baby and is clingy and whiny and then is met with anger and frustration, isolation.
You need to go to your room.
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